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HB - I used to do more of the sewing projects and really do enjoy hemming a pair of pants for family members. They are always so pleased, amazed, and it's like I am magic. 🧚 But I am like you and have found a great seamstress that we use often for more complex or timely things. Before DW went to Disneyland last year we got her a few Disney Tshirts. She is also buxom so needs the shoulders wider but everyone of them went down to her knees. It was just easier to take her and the shirts to the seamstress and let her do them all at once. She did a great job saving the Disney characters but making it fit properly.
Dormice - I guess each to their own and it really does prove what is considered normal by a person can often relate to what they grow up around.
Lorita, we have had so many wasps nests this year. I got stung about five times earlier this year weeding behind a bush and not seeing it on our fence. They will kill my honey bees so no mercy from me - 7 nests found so far. Question: Has anyone else noticed the wasps are not really dying when sprayed with the typical household hornet/wasp sprays? We have been practically drowning a wasp nest/hive with spray and will go back an hour later. A few will be dead but really they are just hanging around waiting for the spray to dissipate and they go right back to their regular activities. We always knock them down and stomp on them or set them on fire so we finally have a handle on it but it has been a problem. An usually bad year for wasps for sure.
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Iris - that's a good phrasing about not liking wildlife in your home. I'm with you, 100%.
HB - Our weather is kind of like yours right now - yesterday and today were sunny with perfect temperatures. Next week? Rain every day. 😄 Ahhh, our 'transitional time.'
I did not know you could buy mouse-based cat food. I'm filing that away for future use.
I'm with you on the dark almond turtles.
Beth - Yeah, that X-ray was startling. It took me a minute to figure out what I was actually looking at.
Nanny - what a cute child! Happy birthday to him! Have a great trip.
Goodlife - Your comments about wasps reminds me of when we had the big murder hornet scare, although maybe that was only a Washington state thing? Murder hornets need to be napalmed into oblivion (imo) - they behead honeybees. (!!!)
Three things I learned about Dolly Parton:
- She helped finance Buffy the Vampire Slayer
- She wrote I Will Always Love You, that Whitney Houston turned into a mega-hit
- She funded Black school marching bands. Turns out she was in marching band back in the day.
I also saw this article this morning about her being a gay icon, and then as I scrolled through the article, there was a photo of the Castro theater (in my old neighborhood), with the message "We Will Always Love You Dolly Parton." Very sweet. The photo is so very Castro neighborhood.
Then this morning, I read that Tim Curry passed away. 🙁 He's been in a zillion things, but I know him best as the "sweet transvestite from Transexual Transylvania", aka Dr. Frank-N-Furter from the Rocky Horror Picture Show. Like Dolly Parton, he was also 80. Bet'cha anything we hear the Time Warp at Death Guild on Monday night - probably at midnight. This (short) article lists his top 10 best performances.
Every goth girl who was into Rocky Horror went as Magenta - including me. I think I did okay. If you watch the first 10 seconds of the Time Warp video you'll see Magenta.
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Good morning
Ron
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I haven't had to spray wasps for a while, but when I do I spot the nest and go back at sundown to spray it. That way, I spray all the wasps, and don't miss the ones who are away from home in the middle of the day. The best thing I ever used for stings is yellow mustard. Smear it thickly on a sting and the pain is relieved almost immediately.
Got a flu shot yesterday. One of my friends got a virus this summer and spent six weeks in hospital on IV to keep hydrated. I'm trying to avoid that sort of fun.
We're having our monthly "jam session" at the senior center this afternoon. Music will be country and gospel, played and sung by people in C&W outfits plus one man who plays a trumpet and dresses like Frank Sinatra ca. 1955. Sort of the negative image of a goth club.
We observed a minute of silence for Dolly Parton after saying Grace at the senior center yesterday. By being kind, friendly, and apolitical, she was loved by multitudes. And she was funny. She hosted Saturday Night Live and opened the show talking about how she wasn't sure how New Yorkers would treat a country girl like her, but all the guys had been "perfect gentlemen". Meanwhile, an overhead camera was zooming into her cleavage so deeply that we could see the freckles. (.)(.) 😍 Dolly was a wealthy woman, and worked hard to get it. I remember 50 years ago when she was appearing in C&W clubs in little Missouri towns where the tallest building is the church and the biggest business is the feed store. She'd sing a song and spend the rest of the evening selling her records, one album at a time.
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Good morning. First Day of School here. Fingers crossed.
Lorita— I do hope the pepper tape and daily drives discourage the nesting. Here's hoping the rats don't develop a taste for spicy wires and crave it. Otherwise, they'll be under there with Ron's Louisiana Hot Sauce.
I'm curious, how do you, as someone as a member of the ranching community, feel about imported ground beef being imported and sold for 25% less that market price to ease the shortage. It seems a little shortsighted and has the potential to make things worse in the long run.
Nanny G— that looks like one happy and handsome little guy. Enjoy your upcoming trip. I'm sure you could use a break.
Goodlife— That's where we differ. I'd rather make the pants than hem something ready-made. Except for jeans. Mom also has a larger bust but not the shoulders to go with which is a different kind of challenge. Plus, they're not symmetrical because of the scoliosis. I like a challenge but yikes!
Carl— Enjoy the jam. It's funny, the more you hear about Miss Parton, the more unique an individual she was. A national treasure for sure.
Even the UK's Cold Stream Guards got in on the tributes. <I tried to insert a clip but it was a no go>Gothic G— Tim Curry was a favorite actor of mine. The man was in so many different kind of movies, television and especially West End theater. There used to be a joke that one could tell the age of a person by asking "How do you know Tim Curry?" Like you, he's always been Dr. Frank-N-Furter for me, but to DS, he was first Sir Nigel Thornberry (voice role) on a Nickelodeon. He recognized the voice from The Hunt for Red October.
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I'm off to get mom packed for her trip to Rockport tomorrow. My niece drives a Mini, so it's a very curated capsule wardrobe only along with her DMEs. I need to swing by the pharmacy for her med packs, write care & feeding instructions for my niece (her request as mom is a lousy self-advocate) and get her a pedi. I swear it's more work to get her off for a weekend than to send my kid away to another country for a week or two.
I hope all have a pleasant day.
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There was a lot to Dolly that I did not know about.
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Thank you HB for sharing that with us. That was a beautiful tribute to Dolly Parton. There is so many things I did not know about her. She will be missed❤️
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All the talk about mice is making me think " ugh!" But I appreciate the link to the Mouser cat food, for my senior cat Adam. I have a hard time finding what he likes to eat, because his taste buds seem to be blunted now.
I was stung by a wasp in North Carolina when I was a child. The family applied a paste of baking soda, and the pain went away almost immediately.
Nanny, your little boy looks so happy!
The "9-5" tribute was very nice. Dolly did so much: in sddition to writing songs for others, she started Dollywood to provide jobs and entertainment to her people. She offers college scholarships to the workers. She funded five years of income for victims of a flood who lost homes. She started the Imagination Library for children to promote literacy, becsuse her dad was illiterate. She gave money to help develop the Moderna Covid vaccination. This is just a few of the many efforts she was involved in.
Lorita, I found another potential solution for you. This was in a community newspaper in Ventura County, CA. This was from a letter regarding not using glue traps.
"Evicting rodent visitors doesn't require violence. It's as simple as removing food sources and placing deterrents such as ammonia-soaked cotton balls or strobe lights in areas they frequent. Effective, long-term solutions include sealing holes, cracks and gaps; storing food in chew-proof containers; securing garbage cans; and reducing outdoor nesting spots by clearing clutter and trimming vegetation."
I think the use of ammonia might work for you. Just be sure that ammonia fumes are not flammable around your vehicle motor.
Iris
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The following is a 25 minute video sbout the life and accomplishments of Dolly Parton.
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Hi, another hot day but a little less humidity. Got up early and watered. Two or three of the trees in our yard are almost bare and one only has brown leaves. It's pretty young so am watering it.
I have bought all I can.think of to keep rodents away - even TomCat which will kill them in a few days. I don't want to use that because Stormy might get one if it wandered into the.yard. I have a light.bulb that I will put under the.hood - maybe that will help.
HB, as you might imagine the idea of.importing millions.of pounds of ground beef is ridiculous. This will be during the next three months until the midterms. The Secretary of Agriculture can't even say where it will be coming from. In fact it's being called mystery meat. How do we know what is being ground and how safe it will be. Consumers will save 25% on ground beef but nothing else. He has.hurt ranchers and everyone else with his "excursion" which caused the Strait being closed. This has caused cattle feed, fertilizer and diesel prices to balloon hurting ranchers and everyone.
Ranching is not an easy job. It is a daily job in all kinds of weather. Caring for their cattle comes first for ranchers. I can remember Charles and I beating ice off of the netwrap on the bales of ice covered.hay so we could feed our girls during an ice storm. You feed them whatever the weather or however you feel.
I don't want to offend anyone - each person has their own opinion but you all get my drift.
Lunar eclipse, almost total, is tonight. I think I'll check it out.
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HB - you made me laugh recalling a jumpsuit I attempted to make in high school - home economics. It never did get finished but if I had it today I could get it done and it would even be back in style. 🕺 I loved sewing my son's Halloween costume each year. My best friend and I would plan it out and have a blast doing it together for each of our kids - more fun than the actual Halloween night for me.
GG - Tim Curry was also a favorite of mine. Just watched a recent interview with him on CBS Sunday morning, who would have known. First time I saw Rocky Horror and Harold and Maude was in San Fran. You made a great Magenta - Do the time warp again. Your picture of the Castro District brought back so many fun memories - it was 1980 in my head again for a moment.
Iris the backing soda poultice is how I usually handle bee/wasp stings. But Carl I am going to try your way next time, those wasps hurt way worse than my little honey bees. I always have some mustard so will keep that in mind. Will just need to keep it away from everything else it will stain 🤣 GG - murder hornets and killer bees on me oh my they are no joke. Someone in our valley introduced killer bees a couple of years ago. When it was discovered they had to bring a professional (our club president) to exterminate them. They were hurting cattle on the next farm over. He had to be in a bio-hazard suit much tougher than our regular bee suits and it was super dangerous. I inquired why someone would bring them here and was told it was because they produce honey at about 5x the rate of regular honey bees. You can't get near them to harvest the honey but you know……..
Lorita, you made me appreciate our 1/2 cow each year. We have friends that raise a small herd of 20-30 each year and we always get 1/2 of one, which is plenty of beef for us. I have always thought it was a little pricey but well worth the extra costs to know our cow was up on the Mesa eating healthy grass and living the best cow life possible. You made some really thought-filled points on the affects of current event, thank you.
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The lunar eclipse is happening right now!
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Iris, thanks so such for posting the video about Dolly Parton. I really enjoyed watching it. She wss one of a kind.
Goodlife, thank you. I may have said too much and hope no one was offended. If so, I didn't mean to offend. I'm a lactae-ova, have been for years. I just love cattle and.being around them. If I'm driving and some are close to the fence I usually stop and talk to them.
Thanks, Iris, I'll go out and look.
Good night, everyone.
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Thanks for the reminder Iris, I just went and looked very cool. My camara is not very good or I would post picture. Maybe someone else will
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Beautiful eclipse! A friend called and we watched it "together" texting pix back and forth and talking about Japanese moon pavilions and such. Next time we'll do it somewhere dark, not in town. Maybe a lake cabin like Ron's rental.
It's midnight and I've been up 20 hours, so good night. Sleep tight, and remember:
"The sex of a bee is hard to see, but he can tell and so can she. And that is why, in times like these, there are so many sons of bees."
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Good night.
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More about Dolly Parton. I didn't know she was so funny.
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Judith - That's how I felt - there was a lot to find out about Dolly Parton. I think that was part of her charm - she didn't toot her own horn. She did all of her good deeds quietly . There's a lot to admire about that.
Lorita - I'm not offended by anything you wrote. I've been reading about the ranchers and thinking of you … it's such a bad situation.
Goodlife - I think jumpsuits are coming back into style (for better or worse).
Harold and Maude - another favorite.
The Castro, although somewhat subdued these days, is still itself. I haven't been inside the renovated theater, but it'll happen.
And thank you! That costume and make-up was kind of time consuming to do every week. Time Warp on Monday. 🙂
Totally agree - murder hornets are no joke.
Iris - We couldn't see the lunar eclipse, sadly. Too many clouds.
I had a day today. It started out so well too - almost a full hour of boxing. I was pretty toasty when it was all over. Very little rests between rounds. Still, I was happy I could get through it all.
But then, I got home, and my email was out. I'm not sure what happened, but it's only just now getting restored (at 1:48am). Ugh. I don't even know yet what came in because it hasn't all been delivered. I guess I'll be catching up tomorrow and hoping nothing vital got lost in the shuffle.
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Ron
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Lolita, you haven’t offended me at all. In fact, I’ve said almost your exact words. We have more crop farming than ranchers here but the cost of putting in a crop and then getting it out of the field to market has skyrocketed.
HB, I have 3 pairs of pants for you to hem when you get your sewing 🧵 machine out again 😂
We’ve arrived at our campsite and both we and BIL have issues. Mobile repair service is coming this morning. Can you say $$$$!!!!
Oh well, so it goes. DH is cooking breakfast so I will head outside to greet the day. Y’all have a good one 😘
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Good morning!
Nanny, best wishes on your camping trip and RV issues. Hope they are fixed soon so you can complete your trip. Loved the pic of your grandson! What a cutie! Is he the one you are home schooling?
GG, your Magenta costume was fantastic. Great job! Very good on the boxing, too.
Yesterday I helped out preparing for our historical society's quilt raffle in the morning, then went out shoe shopping - bought Brooks Adrenaline for the treadmill etc; will be stocking footed for the deadlifts cuz I don't want to buy a pair of barefoot shoes. Shoes are pricey! Saw some at the athletic shoe store for $240! Good grief! Next we went out for a Ruthie (brewery, remember Ruthie the barmaid that I spoke of recently?) and then to Salvation Army with donations.
Tuesday we went to a friend's house. He has abundant peaches on his 2 peach trees and he gave us a lot! I've been processing them for the freezer and also trying to eat some fresh every day. Healthy and delicious. Mmmm.
Wednesday I worked the Farmer's Market for our historical society booth. It was pretty fun. Lots of interest in our quilt raffle. Should be a good fundraiser for us.
Sunday DH and I traveled to my hometown and visited the historical museum. I've been there many times but like to go periodically. Nostalgia, you know. Memories. One of my classmates was working that day so I caught up on all the town happenings.
Monday I attended a funeral of a friend's husband. He was 73, fell at home and hit his head in May and never recovered.
Today I'll go to the gym (also went Monday and Wednesday - I need to get less busy with things so I can get there more often!). I'll also mow and get groceries and make a stop at Lowe's for some gardening supplies.
It was a busy week. I hope next week is quieter.
Beth
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Mornimg, has been a nice morning but probably the last cooler one for a while. Watered plants and have water on the tree for a while lo longer Billy came up for feed but when I opened the big plastic trash can then sacks were wet. Got down to his feed in another sack and it was damp. I think the top of the feed was ok so fed him. I hope the feed I gave him was okay.
Nanny, hope the rest of your trip i s problem free and you all have a relaxing trip.
Iris, enjoyed the video about Dolly. She's back with Carl Dean now and happy.
Beth, you have had a busy week. Maybe you can rest this weekend.
The eclipse was pretty, Carl, but I didn't see it when it was almost total. Just imagine what people long ago thought about the solar and lunar eclipses.
Enjoy your day, everyone.
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Back from Morgan Stanley. Seems I had a good year.
Ron…how are you feeling???
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Good afternoon.
Let me congratulate you jfkoc on having a good year. That's great. I hope all of us have a good year.
We went out to see the eclipse, but had some low clouds. You could sort of make it out.
Ron I think you need more cabin time. I bet your blood pressure wasn't elevated there. Hope that gets under control quickly.
GG that's so frustrating when the email goes out. Hopefully you've got it all up and running properly. I usually happens when your waiting for something important to come in!
HB no mom for a couple of days, whatever will you do?
Lorita I'm so glad you've finally gotten your car. It doesn't matter that you don't want to go anywhere, its your car and it needed to be available to you if you needed it.
DH and his brother have never been close. There aren't issues, they just aren't close. I've know for quite awhile my SIL has had ALZ. Of course no one in the family told me, but the rumor mill in a small town is very active and current. I reached out to him & he clearly didn't want to chat via the phone, but texting was ok. It was brief but apparently SIL is quite advanced. She's either 66 or 65. She rarely knows him and apparently all 100lbs of her can throw quite the hissy fit. When she get where he can't calm her down, he puts her in the car and they drive 3 hr back to her hometown (mine also) and he takes her to her grandmothers house. She see's the house and immediately she's calm. They they drove 3 hr back to their home.
I would image DH's brother would have a hard time since DH is in year 15 and SIL is in yr 3 or 4. They've been told she's progressing very rapidly and to "be prepared." Clearly that's not been our case. It's all so difficult to try and understand. It sucks is what it is.
On that note I've taken down the summer decorations on the tree and will start putting purple on this afternoon. I always make a purple tree for the ALZ Assoc Walks and for Kansas State University, where we graduated from. Time to get back to it.
Let's be safe everyone.
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Good afternoon. It was a lovely day here despite humidity higher than I'd like.
Goodlife— Not a fan of jumpsuits. There's no way to use the restroom without some part of it landing in the toilet or on the floor. You can get the same effect by wearing a top and pants in identical fabric.
Carl— I envy you eclipse viewing. It was cloudy here.
Gothic G— You made an awesome Magenta. Fresh Air played an old interview with Tim Curry this afternoon. He talked at length about fleshing out the character and the reactions of others to it.Judith— Congratulations on your good year.
Ron— I hope you're feeling more yourself.
Mint— If you're out there, know you are missed.
Eaglemom— You are so right about how different people with dementia can be from one another. When dad was diagnosed, I had 2 aunts, a friend's mom and my dentist's dad (DH former lab mate) with dementia. It was striking to compare how their personalities intensified or changed entirely and also what skills remained after others were long gone.
Nanny G— Seems like sometimes camping is like having all the work of home with fewer conveniences. I hope you were able to get things sorted out.
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Ugh. What a day. I started by drafting a Care and Feeding of Nana document for my niece. I'd already packed for mom and left niece a checklist of last-minute items to toss in the tote. A few minutes after hitting send, niece called to report the bi-pap wasn't working; the water tank would not separate from the unit to be filled. This has happened before and required a service call. Given it's summer Friday, that's not going to happen until Monday at the soonest. Figuring she could sleep with just her POC, I sent them on their way.
Yesterday DS came home from class and mentioned that he'd need an analog watch with a sweep second hand. When he went to his first orientation, he was given a list of things he needed to buy or have. The watch wasn't on there. I found one of DH's he no longer wears and they agreed DS could have it. I took it to get a new battery. On the way, I stopped at mom's and managed to fix the bi-pap. Alas, it would be $185 to overnight it to the hotel.
Last I heard, mom was tucking into a lobster.
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good morning everyone
$1200 and a tip later the RV is repaired. The hydraulic system that operates the leveling system jacks blew a hose to the rear jacks.The repair guy had reinforced custom hoses made. He was very nice and knew what he was doing.
@BethL Yes, that’s my little homeschool Buddy. I’m thinking ADHD so really working on structure, routine and creating opportunities to be successful each day. He loves “helping” so I use that to support his learning activities.
HB, I still have my very first watch from Nursing School. In a keepsake box with my Pin from graduation.
DH is up and the coffee is brewing. Have a good day everyone !0 -
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Ron
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