Questions about end of life
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I don’t think it’s imminent, although it’s definitely a decline and progression. It sounds like stage 7- which can still last an average of 1.5 to 2.5 years. @Crushed posts on here and his spouse has been in stage 7 for longer than that.
I tried to post a link to the dementiacarecentral.com website to show you their list of stages and duration. It wouldn’t post for some reason.
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Can you ask her doctor?
I asked my LO's physician if he could tell us what we might expect over the next year or so, given his experience and my LO's age and physical condition and the course of her disease. He responded that while he could not predict the future and there were always exceptions, he could tell us some things that might occur in the next 6-12 months (or might not) . So maybe as long as you are only asking for information and not a prediction your mother's doctor could help.
The MC where my LO lives has a number of residents who are no longer verbal and don't walk and don't speak, but otherwise seem energetic and healthy. Some of them I have been seeing at meals and watching TV for more than 18 months. So I don't think it is imminent if there are no other physiological reasons.
My LO's doctor did mention that as the disease progressed some patients stop walking and transition to a wheelchair for a variety of reasons, and that the transition period can be a time requiring more supervision because of increased likelihood of falls, sores and other concerns from not moving.
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This link takes you to ADAT, a scoring tool that can be used to determine if death is imminent.
FWIW, dad didn't tick all the boxes even hours before he passed.Actively_Dying_Assessment_Tool.pdf (squarespace.com)
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Hello and welcome. Here's a link to the new caregiver group where we save useful info for caregivers. You'll find things like staging tools and other resources that can be helpful in understanding where your loved one is in progression.
https://alzconnected.org/group/32-new-caregiver-help
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If your mother has not been assessed for hospice yet, I would certainly do that.
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