After Years of Caregiving, Uncle w/Dementia Needs Remote Support - Affordable Tech/Dev Suggestions

dipeshvora

I'm at a major crossroads and feeling a huge mix of relief, guilt, and stress. I'm hoping for some practical advice, especially from those who've managed long-distance care for someone with dementia.

For the past few years, my life has been completely dedicated to caring for my uncle. He got divorced about 10 years ago and has been living alone, but last year, he was diagnosed with dementia. It's been incredibly challenging juggling his care needs, full-time university studies, and a part-time job to keep us afloat. Honestly, there were days I didn't think I'd make it.

The good news is, I finally graduated and landed a great full-time job! The bad news is that it requires me to move several states away, starting next month.

Here's the tough part: My parents are not an option. They live in our ancestral village, farming, and have a long-standing, unresolved land dispute with my uncle, which means they absolutely refuse to help or even interact with him. So, it's just me.

I feel terrible leaving him. He needs constant reminders, checks, and support, and I desperately need an affordable way to ensure his safety and well-being from a distance. I can't afford a full-time professional caregiver, and I'm worried about him being alone.

My question is: What are the most affordable, yet effective, technology, devices, or services that can help me manage his care remotely?

dipeshvora

I need budget-friendly options because I'm just starting out and my savings are depleted from his care. Any advice, links, or personal experiences would be a lifesaver right now. Thank you in advance.

towhee

Welcome to the discussion boards. This particular section does not get much traffic. I suggest that you also post on the "Caring for a Parent" board. What kind of "infrastructure" does your uncle have for devices?