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Sjohn2023
Sjohn2023 Member Posts: 1 New
Hi, I am looking for support on finding in home care for my dad once or twice a week and how to navigate it financially. He is not on Medicare and early onset. My parents also most likely would not qualify for free services but cannot afford most private pay places. I am trying to find something in the middle near bucks county Pa. Thank you

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  • H1235
    H1235 Member Posts: 2,322
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    Welcome. You might try calling your local commission on aging. They are aware of a lot of great local resources and programs. I would also recommend they talk with an elder law attorney. Medicaid qualifications are complicated and they will really know what can be done. It gets even more complex when the person with dementia has a spouse. I will attach a link about Medicaid that may give you a rough idea.

    https://www.medicaidplanningassistance.org/medicaid-eligibility-income-chart/

  • ARIL
    ARIL Member Posts: 552
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    Sorry your family is facing this hard journey.

    Your dad’s physician might be of help, and the following website gives contact information for aging resources in Pennsylvania:

    https://www.pa.gov/agencies/aging

  • harshedbuzz
    harshedbuzz Member Posts: 6,931
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    Hi and welcome. I am sorry for your reason to be here but pleased you found this place.

    If your parents haven't seen an elder law attorney to start the process of qualifying for Medicare early. and SS disability as well as discussing Medicaid options for later, this would be a great first step. The lawyer should be familiar with what is available in terms of programs in the area.

    I've not run across and "free" services offering in-home supervision in the county. Hourly agency rates were over $30/hour here 8 years ago. And agencies require a minimum 15 hour week. You might find a daycare program that allows 1-2x a week most reasonably priced.

    Subsidized Adult Day Care - Bucks County Area Agency on Aging | findhelp.org

    https://mentalhealth.networkofcare.org/bucks-pa/services/agency?pid=BucksCountyAreaAgencyonAgingAdultDayCare_2_361_0

    There's this place in Warminster-

    Adult Day Services | Active Day

    HTH—
    HB

  • Anonymousjpl123
    Anonymousjpl123 Member Posts: 947
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    I would second the elder care attorney or even just calling the Alzheimer’s association hotline (on this website). I called it like 4 times when I was trying to find my mom care and even when they didn’t have specific referrals they were super helpful. It’s staffed by trained professionals not volunteers so you will definitely get real answers. Hopefully you can find some help - I’m sure you will. Keep asking for it and reaching out. let us know what you find out.

Commonly Used Abbreviations


DH = Dear Husband
DW= Dear Wife, Darling Wife
LO = Loved One
ES = Early Stage
EO = Early Onset
FTD = Frontotemporal Dementia
VD = Vascular Dementia
MC = Memory Care
AL = Assisted Living
POA = Power of Attorney
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