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            I'm starting this discussion because I've finally found some peace as a caregiver. I am a caregiver for my dad, who has Alzheimer's. At one point, everything became too much for me. He started to be more needy, and his memory is getting worse. I have to leave the house to go to work, and he would call me for every single minor problem he has. Especially with the TV, where I would have to leave work because he pressed something wrong, and now "the TV is dead". Also, I was always worrying if he fell or forgot to take his meds.
That's why I'm interested in hearing what others have found useful, and I want to share something that helped me, because I wish I had known about it sooner.
I solved all my problems with one device, and that was the TV box called Jubilee. It connects to his TV and it is controlled through the remote that has 6 buttons, which are easy for him to press and remember. If there is any problem with the TV, he calls me with the press of one button, and I can fix it through the app on my phone. I can set him reminders, send him pictures and videos and call him whenever I need on the big screen.
It also has a camera and a sensor, so it catches when he is unusually longer out of the room, and sends me an emergency signal. This all together made it way easier for me and gave him much better entertainment when I'm at work.
Does anyone have a similar experience, and what helped you? I'm particularly interested in things that don't require learning complicated new skills.
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            Thank you so much for this! I have been struggling for a long time with the TV and my mom, same exact situation. Any help with a phone situation would be helpful also! She does have a medical alert bracelet to push for an emergency, but she has such a hard time with a telephone, she just pushes buttons and calls random people when she can work it. 0
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            I’m also struggling with the phone problem. We recently moved mom to a nursing home, but her cell phone doesn’t get a good signal. We can call her on her landline phone, but she can’t call out. She really likes having the freedom to make calls, but she has days when she really struggles using her phone and other days when she is fine. She currently has a jethro phone that only runs through t-mobile so I can’t just switch to a different carrier that has a better signal. It’s pretty basic and the plan is only $100 a year (no text, not internet). She has had the phone for about 2 years, so it’s possible it just needs to be replaced, but if I replace it and she still doesn’t get a good signal. I’ve looked at the raz phone. It seems pretty easy to use, but it’s not cheep and I couldn’t find an inexpensive plan either. I have also considered the jitterbug. This is less expensive, but doesn’t offer some of the remote extras the raz phone does. Even if the phone is simple to use it’s going to be different for mom and I’m not sure if she will be able to figure it out. There is no point in putting hundreds into a phone she can’t use. I know when I bring her the new phone she is going to be mad. She has told me many times how much she hates her current phone that I pick out for her. It’s alway the phones flat and in turn mine for picking out the phone. She demands to be involved in the next purchase. I guess that’s just part of the dementia and anosognosia, caregiver takes all the blame. Any ideas on phones would be appreciated. 0
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            Seconding Jubilee TV - it's fantastic. It has a great interface and is easy to set up. 
 My Mom had trouble using the phone, too, and even getting her one of those landline-like phones with a corded handset and pictures of people on it didn't work. I'm very careful with technology and prefer privacy-focused approaches, but what ended up working for us was connecting her cell phone to an Amazon Echo. I then wrote on a piece of paper "Alexa, call Jennifer on Alexa." My Mom was able to say that phrase and the Echo would call my Amazon app on my phone. My Mom could just speak out loud to the Echo to talk to and hear me.
 When she started having problems remembering to look at the phrase to call me, I bought one of those big buttons (like the red Staples "Easy" one) that let me record my own voice saying, "Alexa, call Jennifer on Alexa." She could press the button and the phrase would trigger the call. We didn't get a chance to try that before she moved into the next stage and couldn't remember to press the button. If your LO is able to read a piece of paper or if you get a white button and write "press to call" on it with a Sharpie, I think that should work.0
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