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Welcome. When mom was given the quick test at the pcp she did fine. I insisted on a referral. After the 2 hour cognitive exam, the neurologist said she was not safe to drive and should not be living alone. Don’t put much into that quick little test. You know your mom and can see things the doctor has not. From what you are describing, she is not ok. In my opinion it’s time of assisted living. There can be a waiting list to get in some places. I would e you to start looking into a facility now and get her name on a waiting list. Many with dementia have anosognosia. This is the inability to recognize their symptoms or limitations. This could cause her to put herself in a very dangerous situation. If she forgets about the bacon on the stove, she could burn the house down. If her reaction time is affected or visual spacial ability is impaired she could cause a very serious car accident. She is very vulnerable to scams. She could loose her life savings (she is going to need it, dementia care is expensive). I could go on and on. You can’t expect or wait for her to admit she needs help, it will never happen. Lack of good judgment is a common symptom I had no idea existed. In the beginning I thought it was all about memory and maybe a bit of confusion. There is so much more to it. Because they are not able to comprehend what is happening they make excuses and put the blame on someone or something else. Do you have a DPOA. This is very important! If not see a lawyer as soon as possible! She has to be of sound mind to sign the paperwork. I have attached a few resources for you. In the beginning of this ugly journey there is so much to do and so much uncertainty. Hang in there. As more questions come along reach out, share what’s happening and vent if needed.