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What's your pleasure?

--Rebecca--
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This is my first post! This year has been very hard for me. I moved in with my parents in February, got them well enough to move to AL in April. My mom never fully recovered from the shock of moving and she died in June. My dad will go into MC next week.

Along the way, I've tried to find a few moments, a few things to fully enjoy and be grateful for. For example: A quiet morning, where my clementine is perfectly sweet. There are some cozy YouTube channels that delight me. And I just set up my biggest little pleasure of the year. It's my hot cocoa station.

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The only christmas decorations I took from my parents home are the wooden blocks on top of my shelf. It is a sweet memento. Just looking at the mugs makes me happy.

So what about you? What's your pleasure?

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  • SusanB-dil
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    This year has been tough for a lot of us. That is neat that sometimes even little things can bring a smile and even a bit of cozy and some comfort.

    I have my handcrafts. I like it when I make something for someone and it turns out just right.

    I can work on things and get my mind off MIL issues while still watching out for her at the same time.

    You have a lovely hot choco station.

  • Quilting brings calm
    Quilting brings calm Member Posts: 2,557
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    sewing quilt tops and reading

  • fmb
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    Your little display is so cute.

    I get a lot of pleasure and satisfaction from making baby quilts for charity. I also enjoy reading and exchanging daily emails with a dear friend who lives a couple of hours away. In better weather walking a local trail brings me peace and joy in the beautiful surroundings.

  • clarinetist
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    My fireplace is my Christmas pleasure. Absolutely love your hot chocolate station!

  • DTSbuddy
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    IMG_1544.jpeg Thank you for asking this question. I enjoy cooking wonderful, healthy meals. When my toddler grandson sees me, he erupts into the most glorious smile! And I cherish the phone calls with old friends. Thanks for reminding us to look for what really makes us smile.

  • HollyBerry
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    Anything outdoors. It doesn't have to be dramatic or wild, it can be a hawk flying over the ballfield near our house or putting up a couple strings of Christmas lights. I also like to ride my bike, weather permitting, and do YouTube Yoga with Adriene.

  • Russinator
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    Looking at this picture from a long time ago - mid to late 50s

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  • jfkoc
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    Can I forgo the hot chocolate and join the ice skaters in the cloth? They would be extremely pleasurable for me!

  • AlzWife2023
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    I LOVE THIS PHOTO! It looks like one I might find in my family album! Reminds us that life is not just about now. Memories bring joy!

  • AlzWife2023
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    I sent Xmas cards in earnest for the first time in many years. I went back to church! I love going to mass—-alone—on Sundays & I listen to the daily mass podcast every morning (brings me so much happiness). I participated for the first time ever in a giving tree…bought gifts for an anonymous 10 year old girl & an 8 year old boy.

    I made a list of hobbies to pursue to replace my obsession with thinking about potential eventual jobs & career changes!

  • fmb
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    You described some of the same activities I have begun doing since DH is now in a care home. I returned to the Catholic church after 24 years away and attend Mass almost daily. Like you, it brings me much happiness and consolation. I also participated in a giving tree, making a baby quilt for a newborn baby boy and including a rattle.

    Having these small pleasures is an essential part of caregiver self-care.

  • AlzWife2023
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    edited December 15
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    How lovely that you made a quilt!

    I wish I could knit, sew, or crochet! I can try, but I’m not a very crafty person…I’ve tried before.

    It’s been 38 years for me but I’ve been wanting to go back for a while! I’m so glad you’re enjoying church. They’ve changed things a bit: “and with your spirit” is OK I guess 😂 I liked “and also with you better.”

  • Victoriaredux
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    I love the picture of your doggy , he just needs shades and he's ready for the rope line

    https://www.instagram.com/wintourworld/p/C4LnvNytUxQ/?img_index=1

  • --Rebecca--
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    Thanks, Victoriaredux! He's ready for the runway, or the boxing ring. He's a scamp.

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DW= Dear Wife, Darling Wife
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