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It is national assisted living week

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I have never understood why memory care is always in an assisted living setting but it is what it is. This week is national assisted living week to celebrate residents and care givers.

Those of us who are spending our life savings and 401ks on our spouses assisted living are not being celebrated or recognized. Typical of what is is like to be a caregiver. We are the backbone of the system. We provide years of care for free and then when we can no longer do the work we pay all that we have for their care.

I proclaim 2027 to be caregiver year to recognizes all who have sacrificed their lives and financial futures so that someone with dementia is cared for. The care system depends upon our free labor and financial support.

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  • blacksparky
    blacksparky Member Posts: 421
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    I second that!!!!

  • WIGO23
    WIGO23 Member Posts: 318
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    Your point is well made. Caregivers not only are unpaid but unsupported in many ways. We are expected to be on duty 24/7 day after day, year after year. All the while we are left struggling to find a way to deal with intense emotions and the physical effects of what we must do. It is a thankless job that even the person we do it for is unaware of the sacrifices we make and the toll it takes. It is impossible yet we do it.

  • Jgirl57
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    I think it is because of license categories . I believe all memory care facilities are licensed as assisted living ; it’s weird but google it and levels of care are explained

  • Goodlife2025
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    @blacksparky Here Here all those in favor say yes!

Commonly Used Abbreviations


DH = Dear Husband
DW= Dear Wife, Darling Wife
LO = Loved One
ES = Early Stage
EO = Early Onset
FTD = Frontotemporal Dementia
VD = Vascular Dementia
MC = Memory Care
AL = Assisted Living
POA = Power of Attorney
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