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Falling issues
So, my grandfather continues to prove that he is the most stubborn person in the world. I and my father are currently full time caregivers of my grandfather who has Parkinson's and Alzheimer's. He is currently a medium fall risk as diagnosed by his doc and physical therapist. He is still very independent, being able to do…
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Dealing with Medication Management
Hey Y'all! I'm a 27-year-old caregiver for my grandfather with VD, while also working full-time. He is probably mid-stage by now. Medication management has been difficult to deal with, to say the least. He is very resistant to change and likes to feel in control of things. He's been this way all his life. He's been an…
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NYT: A Woman with a Rare Genetic Mutation ... (FTD)
From the NYT: https://www.nytimes.com/2024/12/22/health/frontotemporal-dementia-genetic-mutation-linde-jacobs.html?unlocked_article_code=1.jU4.Pogt.lww3UxG0uYFK&smid=url-share https://www.nytimes.com/2024/12/22/health/frontotemporal-dementia-genetic-mutation-linde-jacobs.html
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A new experimental treatment - in a nasal spray
Something to keep an eye on. The study focuses on those with moderate Alzheimer's. Can this nasal spray slow down Alzheimer's? Once couple is helping scientists find out
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DH has a hernia should he have an operation
My DH has been seen by urologist. He does not have any pain in the hernia but it is large. . The doctor has said that it is not urgent for my DH to have the operation. My husband has stage 3 dementia. He was in agreement that day but has forgotten about the examination and now said he doesn't want the operation. What…
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Chamomile Tea for DH
Chamomile really helps ME sleep. Once I fall asleep, I sleep deeply if I drank some. It doesn't make me drowsy but once I fall asleep, I'm OUT! I'm thinking of giving this to him tonight. Has anyone else tried this?
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Tricky next steps
I'm really not sure how best to proceed here …. My former next door neighbor, V, in San Francisco, has slowly been progressing. I'm not sure whether he has vascular dementia, straight up Alzheimer's, or some other dementia. The last time I saw him (a month ago), his emotions were beginning to flatten out, and he couldn't…
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Toddler comparison
This is a rant. I’ve been caring for my DH who has been diagnosed with Alzheimer’s nearly 3 years ago which was at least 2 years after I had been begging for a diagnosis. When someone compares caring for a spouse with Alzheimer’s is like caring for a toddler I want to scream. It is such a dismissive comment for the person…
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Will There Ever Be A Succesful Treatment for Alzheimer's Disease
Some important findings about Alzheimer's disease came out from MIT and Harvard scientists recently that can be encapsulated in the following quotes: “One possibility is that maybe there’s more than one cause of Alzheimer’s, and that even in a single person, there could be multiple contributing factors,” Fraenkel said.…
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How do you Know when someone is going to stop walking?
One question I forgot to ask - my sister falls more and seems to lean to the right when she walks. How do we know when she's about ready to stop walking? I called the 24/7 help line and didn't get an answer to that question; I just got some tips on what questions to ask of facilities we are considering.
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Dementia Toolkit
although the following link is specific to SC - it contains a lot of useful info that would apply to all
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FDA approves first blood test from Fujirebio for diagnosing Alzheimer's
This can be less expensive than PET scans or less invasive than examining spinal fluid
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Sneaky "news"
Just a heads up- I've been noticing fake "news" Youtubes lately. Topics have been mainly political- they involve things like sitting Supreme Court justices or government officials sitting solo in Congress for hearings that never happened. There are tiny text disclaimers or slides saying "this is entertainment " but the…
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Falling and New Facility Decision
Hello, My sister has been in a MCF for over a year. We know she won't be able to afford to stay there forever so we put her on the waiting list at the State Run Vet's Home. They informed me this week they have an available bed for her. They've assessed her and believe they can take care of her. I have one issue of concern…
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New
My husband is in the process of being diagnosed. He has no short term memory at all. He has lost his desire to play the guitar which he used to do all the time. He is wanting me home all the time and to be with me all the time. He gets upset. He is now having this anger outbursts usually at night. He thinks I want to leave…
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From the NYT: A Ministroke Can Have Major Consequences
This should be a gifted link. https://www.nytimes.com/2025/05/17/health/elderly-tia-stroke.html?unlocked_article_code=1.IE8.BO37.xssaUFKSfe6y&smid=url-share
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Excessive Sleeping
Of course I am taking him to the doctor and consulting them about this. Still, I have found other people's experiences helpful on this dementia journey we are on. My dad recently fell, luckily he didn't hit the floor hard, I was able to slowly lower him to the ground. His legs became noodles and he couldn't hold himself up…
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Boundaries
Hello all, It's been a while since I've written. I've been busy taking care of loved ones. My mother passed away a few months ago, she had dementia and other health issues. My oldest sister also has dementia. She is in assisted living (as was my mother for the last two years of her life). I have been taking care of both of…
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Constipation - Mom on hospice (and on soft diet) is constipated - suppository & food suggestions?
Hello All, Mom was discharged on Sunday from SNF to home for hospice care. She is on soft diet due to recent stroke. Her bowel movement since discharge indicate constipation and some impaction. In addition to some doses of Senna, Hospice nurse gave her a suppository last night which was productive (somewhat). But I can see…
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Real ID or passport problems
Hi everyone and thank you in advance for any assistance. I live in Colorado but my mother is in a memory care facility in SC. As her disease progresses, it’s just too hard to have her so far away. I’m desperately trying to get her to CO to a new facility but I don’t have her original birth certificate or SS card and she…
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help for a friend
I care three times a week for elderly woman who is mother to close friend. although early stages we shop shop shop i pick her up and drive her wherever she wants to go. we eat then shop she is allowed $60 a day and inevitably goes over forcing me to dig in my pockets which i do willing she is kind then mean and discusses…
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Introduction and Question
Hello! Grateful for this group. Here I go. Introduction, Question, and probably too much background for one post. My father passed away in December 2024 while my mom was in ICU. Since her discharge, I've transitioned her to Assisted Living in the town where I grew up/they continued to reside—location per her wishes. ( I've…
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New to caregiving and I have no idea what I'm doing
Hello… My amazing aunt was diagnosed with Alzheimers/Dementia about 18 months ago. I'm not entirely sure how long she was really struggling before I stepped in, but I fear it was several years due to the things I have been discovering in her files as well as learning about the disease. Hindsight is 20/20 and what I thought…
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To moms...
To those who are moms - have a beautiful mother's day. To those who are taking care of moms - may it be a peaceful day.
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Decompressing after a tough visit
I guess all we can do is take a deep breath and exhale, right? I visited my mom yesterday. She is in Memory Care. I put my game face on. I went through the locked doors she now lives behind. I walk through the community to my mom's apartment, and as I do I smile and wave at other residents I have come to know and say their…
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Caregiver using public bathroom, husband wanders off
My mom is the caregiver and she takes my dad, who has middle stage alzheimer's, to walmart. He follows her around the aisles. If my mom has to go to the bathroom, she doesn't know what to do with him. She has told him to stay with the cart, but she never knows if he'll still be there when she comes out of the bathroom.…
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New Journey Caregiving for friend-former spouse with Vascular Dementia
I can't believe that I am now a caregiver to my ex-husband, who has no other family member, who was diagnosed with vascular dementia. Back in 2022 I thought something was a little off with his memory but just thought it had to do with normal aging. But back in January 2025 something drastically changed. He was not making…
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No idea what he's asking...Help me deal please
Sometimes my DH asks me something and I have no idea what he's talking about and when I have no clue what he's talking about he accuses me of needing my head examined and gets so frustrated with me. Example just a moment ago, him: "what was that thing you put on the thing to make it do that thing"? I had no idea what he…
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Next Steps
Hello! I'm new to this group and glad to be here. Wondering what I should be considering for next steps. My DH has MCI which is getting worse. So far, he still takes good care of himself. I prepare all meals, make sure he takes his meds, try to keep him active (He tends to sit and fall asleep otherwise). If I have to leave…