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Leqembi - medic alert bracelet
What are people putting on medical alert bracelets for LOs on Leqembi so that they aren't given an anti-coagulation drug accidentally? I'm wondering what words are best to convey this in a small space.
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Anyone experience a bone spur
My DH had an open sore between his toe. It healed but on his follow-up appt, his podiatrist took x-rays and saw two bone spurs. He suggested surgery to remove them, but he also said with the Alzheimer’s to deal with, we may want to do nothing. However, if the sore comes back, he’ll have 2 problems to deal with - an open…
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Alz/ Dementia diagnoses 12 years
I'm new to this discussion, but I'm thankful that I can connect to individuals that understand my situation. My husband was diagnosed with Dementia 12 years ago. Until May 2024, he was able to stay home while I continued to work. He is now in a facility with other patients. It's like a big family. I'm at peace knowing that…
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What Have I Done?!?
DH suddenly started having severe leg and knee pain yesterday. Of course, I couldn’t get an appointment with any kind of doctor for almost two weeks. He was able to get to the car, so I drove him to the ER. They ran a bunch of tests, gave him morphine, couldn’t find anything wrong and sent him home. Within 5 minutes of…
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Looking for a zoom call
I’m looking for the sign up information for the zoom call for adult children
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Newly diagnosed
Hi, This is my first time here. My mom Was diagnosed with mixed dementia today and it's been so hard to wrap my head around it. I'm so sad about the diagnosis and sad for her.
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Home care
DH diagnosed with vascular dementia 5 years ago is “progressing” in this horrible disease. He has difficulty walking due to major back issues short term memory deteriorating only leaves the house with me. I am looking into home care from some agencies nearby for companionship maybe 6 hrs a week and give me some time. What…
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New to CPAP
My DH was diagnosed with MCI, although I believe that he is a bit further along since he does showtime for doctors and nurses. Sleep studies determined that he has sleep apnea and his neurologist feels that it may be causing, or at least contributing to, his cognitive decline. So…he has a new mask and it's a challenge to…
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Sometimes I just want to hide
Hi all, been browsing thru these discussions. It nice to know I'm not alone. I'm 66 yrs old and my DW with Alts. is 68. I have allot of mental anguish for my loved one. 44 yrs of married life 2yrs of serious dementia issues. I have troubles with her sometimes telling me she doesn't know who I am-and wants me to get out of…
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Palliative Performance Scale
My wife was diagnosed with Alzheimer’s in July 2016. To keep track of her progress I used the Global Deterioration Scale, also known as the seven Clinical Stages of Alzheimer’s. She was recently placed on hospice and I was introduced to the Palliative Performance Scale. I shared it with a friend, whose wife is in the…
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Inhaled aromatherapy improves cognition in those with cognitive impairment
Unfortunately, I don't have access to the whole article, but here are some of the key findings from this meta-analysis. The effect of inhaled aromatherapy on cognitive function in patients with cognitive impairment: A systematic review and meta-analysis Inhaled aromatherapy improves cognitive function in patients with…
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Dementia caregivers in the UK
Is anyone here from the UK?
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Ups and downs toward the end
My DW has been in MC for almost a year now. She is stage 7 and every few days she is almost unresponsive and I've thought "this is it" but she bounces back. A few days ago when I was at the MC, I'm there twice daily to check on her, hold her hand, etc, the staff had laid her down in bed for an afternoon nap but she was…
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I am so angry and I can't help it
Forgive me for the ramblings but I don't know what else to do. I used to write on these boards about this but haven't written in a long time. My last email was breached so I'm writing under a new email. I am a religious person and believe that God knows what he is doing but I am still so angry and sad and full of grief. I…
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Recommendations for Group Disability Attorney
Any recommendations for a Florida attorney (focused on LTD and you've had success) to assist with the transition from active work status to FMLA/Short term/Long term disability (group benefits)?
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Work at neighbor’s - worried about DH’s reaction
One more thing to worry about…we have a section of chain link fence between us and our neighbor (fence is slightly on our property). It’s covered with a beautiful passion flower vine, which they planted so it’s rooted on their side. Now they plan on extending their vinyl fence inside the chain link which means pulling out…
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Coping
Hello. This is my first time ever joining any type of support group for anything. I am normally a very private person and have been debating for months on how to cope with the fact that my father has been dealing with memory issues for the last few years now. It’s really hard for me to see him so confused and repetitive.…
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Boredom
So it been almost 8 months since a moved my dad in. He still thinks he’s visiting. I work a time job from home and mainly the sole care giver for him. When he first got here his sleep pattern was off and he would sleep till 2pm if I didn’t wake him. He’s timing has recently changed which I feel is a good thing and now he’s…
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mom wants to go home
what do I tell my mom when she repeatedly wants to go home, cries, says she wants to die, it's heartbreaking
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MC just for meals
Hello All I heard from the Director of Nursing and they are moving my Mom to MC for meals. To assist her with feeding. Yes, my mom has been having issues with feeding herself . Is this "normal"… to be honest, I don't know what is normal anymore… but is this usually done? Will full time MC be next? Thank you
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New Here - Caring for My Mother
Hey everyone, I just found this support group website. I'm currently 32-years-old and caring for my 52-year-old mother who has early Alzheimer's. Does anyone recommend or know of a place I can find a social worker to help me out here? I'm supporting her financially, and I need to find a safe place for her to live. Thank…
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Financial crisis in the making part 2
I had posted here a couple of weeks ago. You are all so wonderful to have given me advice, which I am following through on as well as I am able. My dh is not able to make sensible decisions about money and his healthcare. He needs to see his neurologist and his primary care doctor. He has an appointment for the neurologist…
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Grief after loss of mom with Alzheimer’s
Hi there, new to the support forum and hoping I can find any whom are dealing with the grief of losing a mom to Alzheimer’s. I was her sole caregiver for nearly 7-10 years. I’m hoping there’s some other Alzheimer’s daughters out there. How do you handle the combined grief, trauma from caregiving and near debilitating fear…
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New guy
My first post here: my wife’s diagnosis is not confirmed, but the progression is not good. We’re both 77, still in our own home and on our own. Kids are sympathetic and eager to help, but they live at a distance and have their own lives anyway. My wife was a great teacher, and she has many colleagues and former students…
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New to Alzheimer's
I'm 58 years old and have been diagnosed with early onset Alzheimer's. I would like to talk with those who have early onset also.
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Caregiver for parent diagnosed early in life.
Hi, My mother (60) was diagnosed with Alzheimer’s early this year. It’s been a big change for her of course but I am now her sole caregiver (F25). Running her life and taking over her finances. love my mom and I am so grateful I am able to be with her while she still is in the early stages. But I am struggling with getting…
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Leqembi Concerns
I have read the posts on "The Problem with Leqembi" and recognize that it's no silver bullet. However, my DH with ES read in the newspaper about its FDA approval and wants to try it. He asked me to make an appointment with his neurologist next week. Background: DH is 84 this month. He was first evaluated in 2018 and…
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Hypersexuality
My DH has been driving me crazy for a few years with sexual comments all day. The other day at doctor's office he told the nurse she had sexy shoes. This is the first time such comments were made to others. Never before this disease would he say something like that. Several months I spoke with his geriatric doctor about…
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Nights are the worst...
I'm sure I'm not alone with dreading the nighttime and my DH with VD's increased agitation. He does well during the day but when he goes to bed, he is asleep within 5 minutes but his sleep is so restless. He is up and down all night going to the restroom, pulling, fighting with and getting entangled in the sheets and…
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Showboating?
Does anyone know how LO’s are capable of showboating? If they can behave differently with others, why do they challenge their caregivers in unreasonable and even harsh ways? If the brain is “broken” how do they seem to temporarily “fix” it in front of others?