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DW has been battling constipation for sometime now. We've (me and hospice) been though the gauntlet of meds. Frist we've done the old faithful prunes and prune juice. Now we're at the point of meds and stool softeners from senna-s, to polyeth glyc powder and the list goes on. Over a period of 3days I finally will resort to…

My DH gets depressed in the evenings. We visited with friends today and went for a nice walk and stopped and chatted with a couple of people we know. Now he is saying there is nothing for him here at home anymore. He was talking about leaving and going someplace else to live. I am at a loss as to what to say to him. This…

My husband gets out of bed constantly at night and sometimes has a fall, recently was hospitilized but nothing broken. Have him back home and manageable during the day. But would like anyone who has or had the same problem and a good recommendation for which bed alarm or mat works the best. Many of them online, would…

It's time for our yearly eye exam. I'm not sure if the eye doctor will be able to do the exam on DH because he sits, stands and walks hunched over. Honestly he looks like a turtle, the way he hangs his head down. I don't know if he'll be able to put his chin in the machine and look straight ahead, let alone read the eye…

my mom is 73 and newly diagnosed with early moderate alz. the plan in our family as our parents aged was for me and my husband to move in with my mom after my dad passed (as bad as it sounds, we assumed this because he has had heart issues and tons of other health problems for years and he's 78 while she's healthy as a…

Looking for some creative ideas cause I am at my wits end. My mil has been living with us for a year. Diagnosed with FTD about 5 years ago. Still does well during the day, no longer remembers/understands she has dementia. About 6 months ago I started finding wads of wet tissue stuffed under furniture. When asked she…

For over 2 years now I have been on what seems like a wild goose chase looking for proper professional guidance for my mother's increasing concerning behavior. She is 78 years old and I have been living in the house with her and dad for several years due to her having a previous illness that had her in the ICU and…

I have gotten some wonderful words of encouragement and great information on staging from you and I so appreciate it!!! I still have a question though. I read the stages and see some things in one category but only a couple in a later category. What could that mean? My Mr. Math has gone to someone who is struggling with…

Hello everyone! My name is Nicole and my Dad has recently been diagnosed with Alzheimer’s and Dementia. He has been in a cognitive decline for a couple of years but just went to the neurologist last week to confirm his diagnosis. I feel like since then it’s made me sad . I’m trying to do what I can to help . He lives at…

We still have hope as we breath

I've been told that my brother was diagnosed with Alzheimer's. However, when visiting him, I am not seeing any indication at all. Does having a good day mean the complete absence of symptoms? I am very concerned that his wife is exaggerating. I don't live in the same state, so I don't seem him all the time. However, my…

My husband was diagnosed with Alz. a year ago, though I had been taking notes on things I had been noticing for at least 3 years prior to that. He's still quite capable of caring for himself and still does small projects around the house. Most people only seem to notice that he can't think of certain words now and then.…

My wife was diagnosed with early onset about 6 months ago, although I had been noticing problems and changes several months before that. She is currently receiving monthly Kisunla treatments - she's had three so far. At her last treatment she was given a "memory test" - she was asked several basic questions (what State do…

Hello everyone, I’m thrilled to have found this site. I have been feeling so lost, confused, sad, and hopeless. my husband of 54 years was diagnosed with Alzheimer’s over year ago. He is progressing rapidly and as I continue to just try with all my strength to make it through another day, I’m thankful to have found this…

I just need to vent to someone that understands. Mom is in MC so I know I am not dealing with as much as many here, but it is so hard. She is sad, angry, scared and confused and any one of those is hard to watch your Mom go through. I miss my Mom and all the good times. I had my doctor say “it must be easier now that she…

My DH has VD and has interrupted sleep for over 7 yrs. I don't notice any afternoon or early evening agitation. He falls asleep within 5 min of hitting the pillow and is asleep for 60-90 min and then the up/down repeatedly going to the bathroom begins. 150 mg trazadone has helped decrease the uo/down frequency from 20+ to…

have any of you resorted to reporting your loved one to the DMV due to their diagnosis? How did that go? Was it really anonymous?

My DH is recently incontinent. Luckily I’ve been able to get him to wear depends. But lately he just will not go to the bathroom. He’ll go hours without urinating (or I guess urinating in the depends). When he acts like he needs to go, I ask him if he needs to use the bathroom and he says, yes where do I go? I take him to…

Who determines the stages and how are they determined? The most frustrating p pop art of this disease for me is not knowing exactly what my DH has Dementia or Alzheimer’s). And what stage? His primary referred to his disease as Dementia and the neurologist referred to it as Alzheimer’s. They have him on 29mg of Memantine…

I never saw someone I loved so dearly suffer like my Mom. It's all in God's hands now. I am so tired.

After years of falling, stuttering and memory problems I was diagnosed with moderate dementia My husband can't handle and/or accept my diagnosis. He is an alcoholic and he can't help but argue with me, yelling Has anyone else feel this way. I am n o with 70

My Mom has Dementia, still living home with my dad, and I go to their home every day to help them. She accuses my dad that he is having sex with a 13 year old girl along with me and my 2 other sisters. Some days she is good then other days really off the wall. I get very upset because I protect my dad. I know I shouldn’t…

My mom has Alzheimers and my dad has dementia. I'm trying to decide whether to place them in an assisted living facility or hire 24/7 home health care in their home. They live in NY and I'm in MA. Does anyone have experience with either? I'm trying to think of a list of pros and cons. Thanks.

I’m overwhelmed at the kindness, concern, and helpful suggestions of books, online therapy, and other resources- especially the reminders of the importance of self-care. The latter is the one I have always had a difficult time with but I know and heed all your comments. That said, does anyone have any recommendations for…

Hi, This is my first post. My mom has dementia that has progressed to moderate. She is very stubborn and becomes belligerent if she does not get her way. She does not realize that she has memory issues and doesn’t understand why we are not allowing her to be alone. She is refusing to shower because she thinks she showers…

I saw this today and really needed it. I went somewhere today by myself and carried Lonny with me in my heart. 💜

Hello. I am new to this resource and have greatly appreciated all the advice/stories/information I have read so far! The clinical suspicion for my DH is EO AD. Less than 2 years ago, dimentia hit my dad hard and fast. I spent 6 months supporting him and my mom through it all. My mom needed a high level of emotional support…

I’m posting this mostly for Josey Wales, and for others who are now in 7 . I want to be fair and give an accurate picture of what it looks like for others. So just as a little review, my husband 59 has had Alzheimer’s for 7 years. He has never hit a plateau , but just crawls along at a glacial pace. He is at home on…

I am looking into the two different infusions available for Alzheimer's where I live. I have like a thousand questions but here are a few.... Which "brand" is most effective? Which has least side effects? Are the infusions painful? If they do cause side effects... How long do they typically last? Can you "gut it out" or…

My DH is on a low dose of risperidone 0.25 mg twice a day and 25 mg Zoloft once a day. A few weeks after starting them he became incontinent. From what I read it’s a rare side effect and at this low dose I thought it was just a coincidence and that it was just the inevitable progression of the disease. Has anyone else…