-
New to this and seeking guidance
I’m new to this whole world and the challenges it presents! Mom is showing many signs of Dementia/Alz and in the process of additional health tests. No official diagnosis, no cognitive testing. Limited healthcare in the area and PCP is generalist. We are trying to get her to Geriatric Dr in a few months tho haven’t brought…
-
I'm ashamed of myself.
I'm ashamed of myself. This morning I wasn't the kind understanding person I strive to be with my DW. Let me explain. I'm 82 years old and have had large dogs all my life. About 2-1/2 years ago we rescued an 16 month old (80 pound) boxer mix. She is a great dog, maybe the sweetest dog I've ever had with people; however,…
-
How he parts his hair -
So much of Alzheimer’s is heartbreakingly sad, especially when our loved ones stop generating conversations, but occasionally something is said that causes heartfelt mirth. I shower, dress, and most every night tuck my husband in even though he’s in memory care facility. While combing his hair after a shower, I asked him…
-
Ftd
No formatter is installed for the format not-found
-
Donepezil & Memantine your opinions
my wife has been on Memantine about 6 months Nurologist added Donepezil anyone use both at same time ???
-
Guns
Hi my father is in the early stages of Alzheimer’s. We live in rural Alaska and he has always had an arsenal of guns in our home. He always carries one with him everywhere we go. He hasn’t given me any reason or worries about his guns. He also hasn’t shot them in almost year or so. But I know there is going to be a day…
-
STAGE 8 - There is no other side of grief...
My soulmate husband Lonny passed August 12. I feel lost most of the time but am trying to find myself without him. Found this on a Facebook post today. So true. I had my own notion of grief. I thought it was the sad time, that followed the death of someone you love. And you had to push through it to get to the other side.…
-
dosage of psych medication your person is on ?
Her medication per day; RISPERIDONE 0.5mg, CITALOPRAM 5mg, VENLAFAXINE 75 mg , blood thinner APIXABAN 5mg She remains highly anxious and agitated , frequently crying and shaking. she is also very delusional and experienced another episode of delirium 2 days ago …during which she became combative with a nurse, . A few hours…
-
Searching for answers
Hi … my message is very long so please bear with me The following paragraph outlines my current health situation regarding memory and concentration issues. Before and After 2024: A Timeline Before 2024, for 7 years , I had consistent issues with memory, specifically: ● Difficulty memorizing names and faces. ● Forgetting…
-
A toaster oven in AL
Mom asked her doctor that comes to see her at AL if she could have a toaster oven. The doctor talked with AL they decided it was fine and told her she could have one. I as DPOA was never included in the conversation. I am so mad. I know she can’t actually have a toaster oven unless I buy one for her or bring her to the…
-
Need guidance Mom with Alzheimers
Hi, hoping someone can give me some guidance. My mom that is 77 was diagnosed after the blood test, MRI and spinal test that she has Alzheimer’s. Her neurologist told us she is in the early stages of the disease so she can get Leqembi injections every two weeks. She is supposed to get her 12th injection tomorrow and almost…
-
eating habits regressing
DH has ES Alz…but lately, he seems to be regressing in HOW he eats…licking the knife after putting on peanut butter on toast, licking his fingers at the table instead of using his napkin…basic good manners. Is this just him or is this a thing?
-
Sudden changes
My mother's birthday was early November, and that's the last time she seemed almost like herself. She soon became verbally aggressive and anxious. After a false negative test result, she was finally diagnosed with a UTI. It was treated. Since then she's changed. She's not keeping up her appearance now. She looks…
-
Turning Corners and Crossing Bridges
Belated Happy Thanksgiving, y’all! I remain so grateful for this group, the life I’ve had with my DW, and even for parts of the life I still have with her. With that, the holiday was difficult as she turned another corner. Her stepdaughter and family were here, which was so nice on one hand. On the other, my DW asked me…
-
I Hate Christmas
My OH goes to the Alzheimer’s Activity Center five days a week seven hours a day . Naturally, this gives me a big break to do all the chores without having to look over my shoulder to see what my OH is up to…. folding toilet paper , rearranging her closet etc Unfortunately for me, the Center will be closing for almost 2…
-
My mother is dying and taking me with her!
Hello All, I’m new here, please bear with me as I figure things out. My mother who will be 85 yrs old on 12/16 is in the late stages of Alzheimer’s Disease. Mom had 3 kids, 2 boys and me the only girl. The guys have since departed this life leaving me as the sole caregiver for our mother who was once a strong, independent…
-
Warning: Avoid Brain Injury in mAb Clinical Trials.
In 2023, I was in a clinical trial similar to those mentioned in the NY Times article posted here by Crushed. (Alzheimer's drug horror story from the NYT, posted 10/23/2023). I was tested and accepted into the study in January. After taking 5 doses, one injection each week for five weeks, I started getting side effects. I…
-
Looking for next step in care
hi. 2 weeks ago we had to admit my dad to a hospital (he showed aggressive behavior towards my mom and recommended by the dr). A few days later he had a uti but a few days after showed aggressive behavior towards staff and they had to call security. They started him on meds there but now looking to move him to a nursing…
-
Mom has AD and husband abandoned her.
I am writing this because I don’t know where else to turn and I’m hoping somebody out there has gone through something similar. My mother and stepfather have been married for 21 years and I’ve had a pretty happy marriage. My stepfather came down with Parkinson’s a few years ago and is in the later stages now and in an AL…
-
Honor those who passed away from Alzheimer's
I want to tell my mother's story about the 12 years she suffered with Alzheimer's. I am in a legal battle with family who all turned their backs on my mother when she needed them the most, all they care about is the inheritance. My mother and I made an verbal agreement 13 years ago that if I moved in to care for her till…
-
Cruises for PWD and caregivers
I don’t know if this link will work - the article is from the Washington Post travel section 12-1-24. I no longer have a subscription so I can’t share it.
-
Lack of comprehension
My DH is Stage 6 Alz and under Hospice care. I am currently at 10 years on our journey with this disease and certainly there have been challenges but for the most part I feel I have handled it fairly well. For awhile now I have not been able to understand what he is saying. However the last week or so my DH no longer seems…
-
Bible Verse to Lift You Up 11/19/24
THE LORD BLESSES US Psalm 29:11 New International Version 11 The Lord gives strength to his people; the Lord blesses his people with peace. me: When you and I love and obey the Lord, we too are among His people. Lord, You are my God. Thank you for always being with me and giving me the strength and peace I need each day.…
-
hallucinations
:(
-
HIghly Recommend Citicoline For Early/Mid Stage
Hi, All, My partner was diagnosed with MCI on 21018 and the diagnosis has moved now to Alzheimer's since it would not be safe for him to live by himself for an extended period of time. About a two years ago, he revisited a naturopath who recommended Citicoline to support focus and battle brain fog. We researched it…
-
The angry phone calls but good news
Well despite the angry phone calls I get from Dad each night, 9 pm sharp, the staff assures me he is going to activities, and classes, is social and friendly. Those phone calls are so hard. Anyone else have a coping strategy for the anger? I moved him from his home he misses his garage, lawn mower etc.
-
Behavioral issues
Hi, I am new here and really need some advise. I am taking care of my 83 year old father with middle stage Alzheimer's. I actually live with him. He obsesses over everything, anxious, won't leave my side (hates being alone), paces, etc. He also thinks most of the time that I am his dead wife instead of his daughter. He is…
-
Father's Illness Holding 23 Year Old Son Back; Need Advice
I am the caregiver for my DH with Alz. Our oldest son works from home and has moved in with us in the country (rural area) to help financially and practically. He is 34. Our youngest son (23) lives with our daughter (33) in the city and they both visit frequently. She visits every other week for 4 days & our youngest (23)…
-
hallucinations
My wife just started to have hallucinations and keeps me awake in bed. Any suggestions
-
Love & go on...
A friend posted this on Facebook and I thought it might help someone who lost a loved one this year. I'm having a hard time this year. Love & hugs to you all. 🙏💜