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Thinks she is in a new room at MC
Having her room moved has been a theme with mom for a while (even in AL) but does anyone know why after I get her a shower, she routinely thinks we are now in a different room? It is like going in the shower changes her whole perspective.
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Sister is having trouble utilizing bathroom
My sister recently went into MC, 1 month, and she is not using the bathroom but peeing in a trash can. She also does not bath properly so she smells. when the help assists with the shower my sister will only get wet and then get out. My local sister planned a meeting with the facility to see what we can do about my…
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Books, and thermostats
Two questions today… Suggestions, please: My partner has always been a big reader, though she hasn't been able to follow a story (on tv or by reading) for a couple years now. She always wants to carry a book with her and does sort of read it. Everything we have at home has been deemed "too negative," or "not interesting"…
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Who am I?
Just thoughts … Year 5 since DH was diagnosed with vascular dementia. Looking back I realize how naive I was. Not knowing what to expect, what to ask, how to help him, how to help myself. And not surprisingly I still don’t know much! There are no answers! You think you’ve got it and then bam everything changes! I know that…
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Medication Dispensers
Hi friends. I’m looking for guidance on locked and timed medication dispensers. My Dad was diagnosed with Alzheimer’s a year and a half ago. He’s still living independently, and fortunately we live in the house right next door. He takes medication three times a day and I’ve been delivering his medication to him for…
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Another dementia milestone - Mom is moving to memory care
It was just 2 years ago that my mother was officially diagnosed with dementia at age 94. I'd estimate she was early stage 4 at the time. A few months later, in October, I made my first post on this forum feeling guilty for "pulling one over" on my mom by conspiring to have the doctor tell her to stop driving. She's been…
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Sundowning - Changes when new people arrive
Hi, my 80 yr mom seems to be having some severe sundowing with Agitation and hallucinations . On the worst nights, we have gone to intervene for my step dad. When my husband walks in (or EMS or police) she seems to snap back into reality and becomes herself again. Is this normal?
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Sundowning???
my LO has been on the phone all day now until late at night talking to his buddies from years ago 🤔He has never done this before. It’s almost 9 PM and he’s still talking, I’m confused!
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How can I utilize the medical system to physically move mom to a facility
I am an unable to sleep regarding my mom's dementia and steady decline. It has been deemed by the neurologist provider, that she needs a higher level of care which I have known for sometime now. I am a nurse, but, am the daughter in this situation. My brother has been staying nights with her for over 2 months now but still…
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Hospice care
MC just called. Long story short, reviewing progression, they want to put her on hospice care. It’s hard for me to not feel this is it. They explained it just means she’ll get. A lot more care. Thoughts?
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Focus on the Now, the Positive, the Moments
My name is Vickie B. I turn 50 in 4 days, and I've been living with younger onset Alzheimer’s since 2021. Have I cried? Yep- a few short times. BUT I have made it my mission to not stay/live in my sadness. I choose daily to see and find beauty and joy around me. And if I have a bad day, I give myself some grace. Honestly,…
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Newly diagnosed
I’m 54 and was diagnosed formally 3 weeks ago. Having a tough time dealing with it, but I’ getting help, have lots of support and understand that all these emotions are pretty normal. I had my first Leqembi infusion last week and am hoping that helps. I am just not sure what to expect in the near term and could use some…
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A helllful
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Dream last night….
I haven’t dreamt since 2023 when I was diagnosed with aggressive cancer and had no choice but to place my husband Lonny in Memory Care so I could get treatment. He passed last August 12. Last night I dreamt that I was on a trip and was desperately trying to get back to him. I couldn’t find my luggage or find my way back to…
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Alzheimers drug horror story from the NYT
https://www.nytimes.com/2024/10/23/health/alzheimers-drug-brain-bleeding.html?ogrp=ctr&unlocked_article_code=1.UU4._7lR.3WFk8efLcVB9&smid=url-share I hope this link works but this is a gift article which I can reprint its all here in a number of sections It is the worst ethical violation I have seen in my entire career…
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How long is it safe to leave someone with Stage 6 Moderately Severe Dementia alone?
Hi all, new to the forum, been supporting my mother diagnosed 5 years ago with Alzheimer's. Most of my support has been to help my father, the sole caregiver, take some breaks and figure out next steps, and to increase the contentedness my mother has and decrease her anxiety. I spent half of the last two years off and on…
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Taking care of my Mom
My Mom has Dementia, still living home with my dad, and I go to their home every day to help them. She accuses my dad that he is having sex with a 13 year old girl along with me and my 2 other sisters. Some days she is good then other days really off the wall. I get very upset because I protect my dad. I know I shouldn’t…
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Am I out of line?
Hi, community. I'm currently unable to sleep. My Mom (75 years old) came to our house after an unidentified cognitive episode in February. She was diagnosed with Alzheimer's a few weeks later. As her identified POA, I, along with my brother, got to asking our mom her wishes and taking action to find a place for her to…
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Lost
I'm new to these discussions and I feel completely lost. My DH has become increasingly detached from reality. He doesn't know me at all. He thinks I am mean, even though I do everything for him. He daily wants to "go home" even though we are at home. Has anyone else had this experience?
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Wife has stocks in her name
my wife has some securities in her name, what can be done if you don’t want to sell just now, can you have transfer to my name or what to do??
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Tests and medications
Here is a philosophical question for everyone to ponder. As healthy human beings, we all do what we can to insure as long of a life that we can have. We eat right, we exercise, we take supplements. We do all the tests that is required by our age group like mammograms, colonoscopies, and so forth. We get flu vaccinations,…
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Mom refusing to be active
I am struggling to get my mom up and around more. She has never been really active honestly but she would work out about 3 to 4 times a week. Since my Dad was sick about 4 years ago, she has had a hard time taking care of herself. He passed 2 years ago after being sick for 2 years. She was out of practice while he was ill…
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Questions about taking Donepezil Brand names: Aricept
Hi all, I was diagnosed with ALZ a year ago at 62. I have had several tests to rule out other possible problems. 2 Neurological Eeg test a year apart same results that show a large decline in my processing score. My symptoms, of anxiety, mood swings, balance, memory are increasing. I take mematine for memory and they…
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Moved husband to memory care and he just wants me
I brought my husband, who is in stage 6, to a memory care facility yesterday and today the director called me. I wasn't really surprised because my main concern was how dependent he is on me and how much he loves being home. Today, there was a woman who looked like me visiting another resident and he thought she was me and…
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How to motivate your AD spouse to do things that will help her.
My AD spouse isn’t self-motivated. I have made dot papers for her to complete with her name, address, phone number… I am continually helping her navigate her phone and texting… I am helping everyday to work the tv remote… she was a music director so I have enlarged music for her to sing with(words only)… I write our day’s…
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Is there any other way to relieve agitation besides medication?
My dear grandmother was diagnosed with Alzheimer's last year, and just in the previous few months, she has gotten worse. She has been yelling, berating, and crying lately, more like a manic patient. Sometimes she yells at my grandpa, mom, and aunts over a small thing. We are all heartbroken. And she refuses to take her…
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Bad fall
Just as things were finally settling in to normal my mom had a bad fall. A very serious and deep cut/head injury requiring staples and stitches. Fortunately great health care near her MC. The doctor even discussed pros and cons of keeping her overnight while waiting for test results (we opted to bring her back to the MC…
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“Woozy, Head Feels Heavy”
Question for you caregivers—does your LO ever report their head feels, “heavy” and they are “woozy”? If so, has anyone consulted any doctor about this? Thank you in advance for sharing.
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memory loss
My husband is being treated for a third breast cancer recurrence. It has been 6 years of: masectomy, chemo, radiation, injections and constant meds. He sees an oncologist and neurologist but no one has addressed his memory loss. He is losing words unable to find the label for things, memories, directions to familiar…
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Leqembi/Kisunla
My dad was recently diagnosed by his neurologist with Alzheimer's. He is 63 and is still considered to be in the "normal" to mild cognitive function. His neurologist said he is a great candidate for Leqembi or Kisunla. We are having a hard time choosing between the two. Does anyone have any experience with either? Our…