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Neurologists recommendation
Any recommendations for a neurologist in North Central Florida (Jacksonville, Tampa, Orlando, Gainesville, etc) who is particularly good?
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New here
Today broke me down. Nothing about today so out of the ordinary but it’s been a slow build. My mom hasn’t officially been diagnosed yet but her short term memory is going. She lives with a friend and I take her to all of her appointments, manage her finances, set up her meds, communicate with all the doctors, wash and…
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Having NO LUCK getting mom an appt with a Neurologist
I am in South Carolina, just south of Charlotte, so not in a rural area or anything like that. I have been attempting to get my mom AN APPOINTMENT with a neurologist for OVER A YEAR, I've had her primary care doctor send in referrals to every neurologist in a 20 mile radius and I've called them myself, only to leave voice…
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67 year old wife trance-like state
For hours at a time on most days it is easy to believe that she has nothing more than minor memory issues. But as if she has a split personality, she will become very distant and seems depressed and goes into a trance-like state. This can last 2 to 3 hours and then she comes out of the trance. This issue began around…
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delusions
I am wondering what peoples experiences have been with delusions. Do you think there is some bases in reality for where they come from or are they just random. In my case when my wife was younger her parents went through a very mess divorce because of an affair and my wife had an affair with an old boyfriend. Now she…
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Living with two slowly declining parents
I am new to the discussion here. I am currently living with my parents. They are both slowly showing signs of dementia and I am having to take more control of their healthcare and finances. My dad has zero short term memory and constantly repeats questions that I answered for him five seconds ago. My mother has lost alot…
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How do I respond to her confusion?
What is the best way to handle when your early onset spouse is saying for the first time over and over again she doesn't know who I am? Brought out pictures but she doesn't remember me. I need advice on how to respond in this situation.
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Milestones
Today is my DH's and my 50th wedding anniversary. He's been in MC only a week. I visited him this morning and celebrated with a card and chocolate covered donuts. He still knows me most of the time and can say "I love you." I guess that is our celebration.
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Sleep, sleep, sleep.
Hi y"all, My DW is early/mid stage three, we have been married 56 years. She was diagnosed two and a half years ago, now in mid stage 3, by my assessment. She is very affectionate and appreciative of my efforts in caring for her needs. She is now sleeping at least 14 hours a day. Her mother was on a similar path when she…
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Alzheimer's Progression is not Linear...
So anticipating what might be needed or how to respond/care is so difficult. My husband has been diagnosed since 5/2023 with Alzheimer's which was certainly happening well before that. In all the research, and support groups, and meetings, and readings, and doctor's visits, and clinical trials, I've been navigating dizzily…
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Six Months Since Moving
It has been six months since we moved two states from our hometown of 72 years to be near our daughter. DH has ALZ. I am still profoundly homesick! I miss everything I left behind, my older brother, our friends, our doctors, our dentist, all our familiar places and routine. We are going back this week to visit my brother.…
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Newly diagnosed with early onset Alzheimer's I'm 59
Im single and work fulltime. I live paycheck to paycheck. I'm in early/mild , kinda crossing over. I have no idea what to expect. Or any kind of timeline. I have debts and need some direction. There is no long/short term disability where I work. I expect a 2 week severance when they find out. How long will i be able to…
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Memory care
These last few days may have been the saddest of my life. Our kids and I moved my DH to memory care on Tuesday. DH has been mostly calm but with anxiety and confusion in the mix. I am grateful he wasn't combative or accusatory towards me or the children. Now I am saddened and filled with a deep sense of loss I have never…
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Live womens groups in San Diego area?
Putting this out there to see if there are any early onset women in the San Diego area who would be interested in getting together occassionally. My wife, 65 years old, EO and early stage is interested in meeting other women for support and socialization.
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Convincing Mom to Get Help
Hi everyone, We are having a very difficult time trying to convince my mom to get help or get caregiver. She’s been a very independent woman for a long time and given my father passed away a long time ago, she’s been alone for awhile so she’s had to take care of herself. But we are worried something bad is going to happen…
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This is hard....
Hello all....I'm new here and I am feeling so overwhelmed. I am the caregiver for my sister who has Alzheimer's and the things I have gone through over the past year has been exhausting. I have no other help and her Medicare has been cancelled, so I'm kind of on my own until after January when I can apply to have it…
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Wanting to leave the house
hello. My dad has dementia and his symptoms have been progressing the past 3 months. He is waking up in the morning wanting to get dressed and leave the house to go to work even though he no longer works. My mother is the caregiver and lives with him and when she tries to stop him from leaving he gets very nasty and can be…
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55 and have early/mild Alzheimer's
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Aggressive Parent Need Advice
Hi, I've never commented on here before but I need advice and have no one to turn to. My father has dementia possibly from Alzheimers, which has been going on for about 6 years now. He started showing signs of aggression the past month, but he just tried to break my mom's wrist and is threatening us. I stepped in and he…
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Managing Exit-Seeking and Aggression Issues in Memory Care Facility?
Hello. My mom (83) has dementia. We moved her into a memory care facility last year. Aside from her memory issues, she is very independent (no need for assistance with basic stuff like showering, walking, eating, etc). However, she has strong exit-seeking behaviors, in that she is very upset being locked in the MC ward and…
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Some good advice (cross posted)
This is my caregiver education for the month of November as an adult foster care provider for my loved one. I thought it was good advice that we can all use.Communication and Interpersonal SkillsThe caregiver/member relationship can often be tenuous and difficult. Home care is a stressful setting that typically involves…
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Some good advice
This is my caregiver education for the month of November as an adult foster care provider for my loved one. I thought it was good advice that we can all use.Communication and Interpersonal SkillsThe caregiver/member relationship can often be tenuous and difficult. Home care is a stressful setting that typically involves…
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Anger When Family Tries To Help
Hi everyone! I wanted to reach out and see if anyone else has had experience with this and what you did to mediate it. So I am a caregiver (F25) to my mama with Alzheimer's (F60), and she is on her first big trip since her diagnosis. Her sister took her out of state to visit other family members and my mom is having a…
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Just got pet results
I’m freaking out because it appears to me that it’s saying I have ad. Now to wait for my appointment to go over my bloodwork and pet results in two weeks. Unfortunately my family has a strong history of early onset dementia, but still, 42 is the youngest in my family if it’s true. I’m hoping doing some research will help…
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Keeping a list , documenting the journey
I posted something like this a few years ago—- it will help you to start keeping a list of things your LO does that shows they aren't able to function like before. Littler stuff like putting the milk away in cabinet next to cereal box. Kinda makes sense , but…. Big stuff like saying they haven't eaten - while the third…
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Any luck with caregivers?
My DH is in early stage 6. I’ve tried 4 caregivers. Every time he starts off positive with their visits and by the 4th or 5th time he’s agitated that they are there. Follows me everywhere to get away from them. Granted not one of them has done what I expected to bond with him. They start off very conversational etc and…
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Anyone ever move a loved one on Medicaid to another State?
My sister’s nursing home has asked us to move her. They are citing that she is “exit seeking” and that she is difficult to deal with - saying that she needs to be in a memory care wings. They do not offer the service. I suspect that is not the true reason - yes, she is difficult, and she is an exit seeker (5-6 times a day…
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Medicare and Leqembi
Hi! Anyone out there on Leqembi and have Medicare? My wife is on Leqembi and just turned 65 and signed up for original Part A and B Medicare. We’re wondering how much Medicare pays for Leqembi? And how much is left over for the patient to pay? The first few infusions were given when she was still on my BCBS insurance. So…
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Language issues
My spouse has had problems with language for several months. I mention it when people ask about him, but I struggle to explain it. So, yesterday, I started a list. He was staring out the kitchen window (at the sunset). When I asked, "What's up?" he said, " I'm looking at the thing that's going to go away soon." What do…
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I have a question about Parkinson's Disease
I have a friend who has Parkinson's Disease. Her voice is very soft and I have to ask her to repeat two or three times before I can understand what she is saying. She wears hearing aids and probably doesn't hear her own voice well. I would like to suggest that she receive speech therapy to improve her voice and speech. Can…