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BIBLE VERSE TO LIFT YOU UP 10/11/24
GOOD WORKS/MUCH FRUIT John 15:5 NIV JESUS’ WORDS “I am the vine; you are the branches. If you remain in me and I in you, you will bear much fruit...” Ephesians 2:8-10 NIV “For it is by grace you have been saved, through faith—and this is not from yourselves, it is the gift of God—not by works, so that no one can boast. For…
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Learning to communicate again
My DW is in her fourth year with Alzhiemers. Lately I find that I have more difficulty understanding what she says. She is unaware thratedat what she says is not always what she means. I get frustrated and that does not help.
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Mom’s latest explanation
I know you all have been there, done this. This is more or less a vent/ update. Mom has told me she doesn’t feel good for a couple weeks now. There’s no real physical issue other than she won’t always wear her oxygen and therefore feels even more tired than normal. She’s 86. I don’t expect her to ever feel perky again. I…
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New Here
My DH of 64 years has had signs of some dementia for over 20 years. His Mother and her siblings all had full blown Alzheimer’s before they died. So it wasn’t hard to think that he might have it. About 3 years ago it came to a point that I just couldn’t cope and I finally talked to our primary care Dr. who we also consider…
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Enter into their reality…@
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BIBLE VERSE TO LIFT YOU UP 10/11/24
GOOD WORKS/MUCH FRUIT John 15:5 NIV JESUS’ WORDS “I am the vine; you are the branches. If you remain in me and I in you, you will bear much fruit...” Ephesians 2:8-10 NIV “For it is by grace you have been saved, through faith—and this is not from yourselves, it is the gift of God—not by works, so that no one can boast. For…
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BIBLE VERSE TO LIFT YOU UP 10/11/24
GOOD WORKS/MUCH FRUIT John 15:5 NIV JESUS’ WORDS “I am the vine; you are the branches. If you remain in me and I in you, you will bear much fruit...” Ephesians 2:8-10 NIV “For it is by grace you have been saved, through faith—and this is not from yourselves, it is the gift of God—not by works, so that no one can boast. For…
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BIBLE VERSE TO LIFT YOU UP 10/11/24
GOOD WORKS/MUCH FRUIT John 15:5 NIV JESUS’ WORDS “I am the vine; you are the branches. If you remain in me and I in you, you will bear much fruit...” Ephesians 2:8-10 NIV “For it is by grace you have been saved, through faith—and this is not from yourselves, it is the gift of God—not by works, so that no one can boast. For…
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Cycles of doubt
This seems to happen every few weeks or even every ten days or so. I’m sure it’s a sign of burnout, but I want to run away. I want to be alone. I want to enjoy my home and my time, which are no longer mine. Like every other carer, especially spouses, my life is no longer my own and I cannot predict if or when it will ever…
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looking for some hearts and souls that understand
Hello Dear Community, Dad and I went to a neurologist appointment today to get him established with someone here after his move closer to me. You all have supported me through so much already. I thank you. It was our first time out together since his move here in late June. It was good to be out with him. I was so nervous…
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New to Alzconnected
Hello. My name is Christine, my mother has Alzheimer’s. Soft diagnosis was in August 2023 and the final diagnosis was January 2024. It has been a wild ride to say the least. She has been on Memantine for about 6 months now and recently received her 2nd dose of Leqembi via infusion. During and immediately after the infusion…
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Seeing DH slowly fade away
The worse part of visiting is leaving & driving 3 hours back to an empty house. The worse part is also seeing the other veterans there that are farther along in their dementia journey knowing what's coming for my DH. This weekly refreshed reminders of loss & grief are dragging me down.
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Early On-Set Rate of Down-Slide?
Hello, My DH has been living with aphasia for the last 2 years and was only recently (within the last month) diagnosed with AD. Since the diagnosis, he appears to be rapidly devolving - - anxiety about a number of different world events (hurricanes, war, covid, etc.) and amnestic symptoms, neither of which had been an…
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Leaving alone
This may be an obvious question, but I'd still like your thoughts. All of the literature says don't leave your person with dementia alone after a certain stage. My husband is clearly stage 5. However, he absolutely does not wander (doesn't leave the house), doesn't try to use appliances, pretty much sits in his chair when…
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The other woman
My mother in law lives with my husband and I. In the evenings she believes that my husband, her son, Is her deceased husband. That prompts her to ask him to come to bed at night. When he tells her I'm not going to bed yet "MOM", she gets upset sometimes telling him she Is not his mom, other times getting very upset telling…
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How to answer DH's questions?
Here I am, on a beautiful Saturday, all alone, wallowing in self-pity. The need to visit DH is upon me now—ready or not—as he has a telehealth appointment with his neurologist coming up soon and I need to be present for that. Guilt has weighed heavily on me ever since I decided not to visit him after the first visit last…
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Good ways to talk to DH's doctor?
Hi all! DH has a PCP doctor appointment on Wednesday and I usually attend with him. The doctor is aware of DH cognitive issues and is fairly saavy and I usually update her the day before by leaving a message with issues, details, requests. The doc can throw me under the bus sometimes in the appointment by saying, "you wife…
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Help! I am second-guessing my decisions
My DH got COVID last month. For all of his 33-day hospitalization, they forced in to stay in bed (for falls precaution) and would restrain him much of the time. They barely walked him because he required 2 people (staffing issues or laziness?). PT might have come around 4 times in the 33 days. He was transferred to a rehab…
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Robotic therapy cat
I thought about getting a cat at one time but most of the responders on this forum discouraged the idea and I agreed with them that it would be too much stress for me as he gets worse. Even now he leaves the door open a lot so I’d be constantly worried the cat would get out. I’ve been thinking about the robotic cats and…
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My lifeblood is in MC
Hi all, I have not been of much help lately, have not been able to post. As of last Thursday, my Guy has been in a memory care unit, He had a paralysis in mid August, went to hospital for a week, then to a TCU for several weeks.. Now to a memory care facility that, actually, I could live in for $500 more a month. Diagnosis…
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Rapid Decline
My DH dropped 3 points on the MMSE in 6 months. I was told this is rapid decline. His score is 18 but they said he has/had high cognitive reserves. I put him at a solid stage 5 with a foot in stage 6 on Tam Cummings. Has anybody experienced this with their LO? Does it continue dropping at a rapid rate or can it be a one…
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I Would Pay Money for a Little Anosognosia
As my DW loses her ability to speak and has started becoming more anxious and paranoid, she will say to me, "I am about to lose it all." and then she'll cry. So I cry and think of how utterly unfair it is that she knows, really knows that her brain is failing her. I know her thinking she has nothing wrong would bring it's…
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Little kids visiting advanced stages?
My mom is in the advanced stages of EO alz. We recently moved her into memory care. I decided to travel to visit a week later to offer support to my dad who was struggling with the decision and to see my mom. I brought my two young children (6 and 2 yo)with me to visit mom. My mom often does not seem to know what is going…
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Unwanted Advice
Back story, My mom (83) was just diagnosed with dementia along with multiple other health issues. I have been bathing her and taking her to appointments since February (since and hospital and rehab stay). Now I also cook her meals. My dad does the best he can but he is 88. I work a part-time job, a seasonal job and own a…
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desperately seeking advice for unique situation
Hello everyone, I’m new to this board and am hoping some of you can offer me some advice because I have no idea where to turn. This is all really a lot so I appreciate all of you who take the time to read it. My aunt and uncle both started showing signs of memory decline approximately 10 years ago. No matter how hard my…
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Early On-set sadness
My DH seems to be advancing rapidly in his disease; he is only 61. I feel guilty that it's because I can't provide the level of care he needs. We've made too many trips to the ER lately. Most recently, he fell out of bed, tripped on a metal step stool, broke it, and then snapped the stabilizing bar, and it stabbed him in…
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Don’t know what to respond
My DH has just moved to a new MC after he was “dumped” in the ER by the prior facility. He is now getting great care, but the stay in the ER did a lot of damage. He cannot walk, has vision problems and his speech, which was poor, has become almost unintelligible. So he has lost the ability to communicate with the care…