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60 minutes interview
This was posted by a neighbor. Can you imagine being worried about retaliation for speaking about Alzheimer’s research?
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bathroom issues(6)
Hello this is my first post and am willing to listen to any/all recommendations for this problem. Has anyone experienced the loved one with dimentia having poop problems? The issue is she seems to some time poop on the floor. She also puts her hands in her poop. Today, I ended up loosing my cool when she had poop all over…
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The weight of the world on my shoulders
Hi - I'm new to this forum. Warning - this is going to be a lengthy post as I just need to let some of this out** Thank you for being kind. I finally sat down and joined because I am at a breaking point with being a caregiver to my mother, a mother of two teen girls, a wife and the primary (and only) income earner in my…
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PPA (primary progressive aphasia) - a type of Alzheimer’s
my sister, age 77, has been diagnosed with “logopenic PPA” and Alzheimer’s - and is living at home with her husband. She can do all the ADL’s, is working out, socializing and seeing a speech therapist. She has no memory loss but struggles to find words, has trouble writing and reading. On Aricept today, however her…
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State Law Regarding Patient to Employee ratio at Memory Care Facilities
Did you know that the State of Florida allows the same ratio of staffing for Assisted Living residents as it does for Memory Care! How is this possible when many of those in Memory Care required much more daily support? As individuals we are helpless without the support of organizations like the ALZ Association and…
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Took part in Alzheimers Research study
My father clearly had some form of dementia but didn't get an actual diagnosis, it was just described as senile dementia. I have never had a great memory, but it was getting worse. I recently participated in a research study looking for the biomarker for Alzheimers. Blood tests showed I have the biomarker for Alzheimers.…
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DW just diagnosed with Early onset Alzheimer's
My DW (63) has recently been diagnosed with early onset Alzheimer's so we are in the beginning stages of dealing with it. We've been through 5 months of testing. Her mother is in assisted living and soon to be in memory care for alzheimers so she sees and knows the likely progression. We have 3 grandbabies and more on the…
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Words I never thought I would say
We've all said things to our partner with dementia that we wish we could take back — angry, frustrated, sad, words that they can't begin to understand the reason for. Fortunately they forget quickly. Lately I've said something to friends and family that I never expected to. I'm ready for my husband to die. DH has been home…
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Confusion in transition from sleep to awake
I have been searching for information on this site, but cannot find much about this. My DH is developing a pattern of confusion or ??? During the period of coming awake. The duration varies, from a few minutes to half an hour. During that time, he does unexpected things like needing to empty the dishwasher unclothed, or…
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Just when you think thing are doing prettygood
A slight change in a routine about locking the doors while I was at work.He became confused to why we need to.i have grand son I cant quit trust. He knows when I'm gone I I would the doors unlock.dh very upset when just thinks about him. Not quit sure what to do to make him less agitated.
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Accepting
Hello, This is my first post. My DH just turned 67 and was diagnosed with Alzheimer’s less than a year ago. I am still trying to adjust to this new reality and how quickly he seems to be declining. I found the posts on hallucinations very helpful. In the past several weeks he has awoken in the early morning (usually around…
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Experience with Caplyta
Hospice is recommending Caplyta for my DH with EO. Has anyone had experience with this drug?
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Falling Apart Caring for my Mom
Hello. I am not doing well. My dad had Alzheimers in the last 7 years of his life, and I cared for him. I thought that was all over when he died in 2017. Then in 2020, it started all over again with my mom. It's been 5 years now, and I'm going absolutely bonkers. My life is falling apart caring for her. Almost everything…
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Kinsula treatment
Is anyone in this group being treated with Kinsula? If yes what has been your experience. I would like to know more about it before making a decision to start treatment.
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New to this Group
I am caring for my DH who has had cognitive decline over the past 4 yrs. As I write this, I can't believe it's been that long. I am trying to abide by the rules, however find myself breaking the rules, especially when I am in the middle of something, (like doing taxes today). He has alcohol dependance with a dementia /…
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An ugly discussion about poop!
Sorry, everyone, but I have a question about poop. My husband is in a memory care facility. Lately, his bowel movements have been very soft, and impossible for him to pass all of it while he is on the toilet. He is unable to wipe himself, so he ends up with poop everywhere. He doesn't tell staff when he has to go, so they…
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Medications?
My husband is starting to show signs of paranoia and hallucinations. He’s currently in a long term care facility. He’s in palliative care. I’d like to bring him home, but he has wandered in the past and sundowns. Does he need to see a neurologist for a diagnosis? How do I find out if he needs medication? I can talk with…
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From NPR: A piece on "Caregiver Identity Theory"
An interesting read-
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DH in NH pinched another resident km
DH has been in NH for 2 months. He has been wandering into other people's rooms. Last night got a call that he had pinched a woman and caused bruising. Needless to say the female resident was yelling and extremly upset. I feel terrible he did that to her and today he's having a psych evaluation in house. Anyone ever go…
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Waiting for the ER
DH had a complete mental breakdown at his rehab center today, where he was recovering from a fractured tibia. He has been declining for a week now, and I’ve been begging and pleading for help from them which was not forthcoming. They finally decided tonight to send him to the hospital with a diagnosis of “altered mental…
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Question about adult daycare
I went to my support group today. At least three people there sounded like their loved ones could benefit from adult daycare, but they all said that their people were still too early in the disease and too aware to be willing to go without a fight. How might they approach the subject to make their loved ones more amenable…
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Difficult sibling
I probably already have a post with this title. My brother visits mom once a week and is kind and caring towards her. But! He dumps all his personal problems on her ( she worries constantly). He believes she should be informed and consulted on almost everything. He is obsessed with her “rights” even at the cost of her…
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Should we travel?
My DH has been diagnosed with MCI although I suspect that he is further along in the process. He has always been close to his sister who lives several states away; and her husband passed away recently after a difficult battle with ALS. His sister is hosting a "celebration of life" open house at her home in a few weeks in…
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This journey
It’s been 3.5 years since my dad passed and I became my mom’s caretaker and her dementia took a fast slide. She moved out of state to be close to me 2 years ago. Many of you have been right there with me on this journey. Staging: she was probably stage 3-4 before dad passed, 5 when she moved here. Now she’s in stage 6 in a…
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Need help accepting caregiver
We're trying to hire a caregiver/helper for a few hours a week, but my wife is very private and gets angry at the idea of having someone else in our home. We need some advice on how to resolve this. Thanks.
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Mother Passed Away/Car Keys
My mother passed away 3-4-25. Father was diagnosed with Alzheimer’s January 2023. He has been is early stage to date. Still takes care of himself, but can’t manage bills laundry or cook. I have 2 sisters. One lives right beside him & helps a lot, but works FT. One lives within 5 blocks, helps after work. I live 2 hrs away,…
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This may be crazy question.. but has anyone ever heard of someone staying in say Stage 4
has anyone ever heard of this ? I’m curious or hoping has anyone just at a say Stage 4-5 and never going further. ????
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Grief and Guilt
My Dad was diagnosed with dementia in 2019. He moved into an ALF when it was no longer safe to drive. He was living there for 3 month then Covid hit, they were basically locked down and he was kept in his apt with no outside stimulation. That's when he began to really decline. At that time he was living an hour away and I…
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Frail Elderly Waiver
If your loved one has a frail and elderly waiver, please tell us what services they get through this program. (Bonus points for Massachusetts). Thank you.
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When do you know it's time for a facility?
Hello. My name is Maria and I'm new to this forum. My mother will be 83 in July and is still living independently in a 2 story townhome with laundry in the basement. She has a companion that comes from 11:30 - 4:30 on weekdays. My sister and I spend time with her every Wednesday evening and on weekends when we can. We are…