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Bible Verse to Lift You Up 2/21.23
2 Translations FRUIT OF THE SPIRIT Galatians 5:22-23 New International Version "But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control. Against such things there is no law." * Galatians 5:22-23 Amplified Bible " But the fruit of the Spirit [the result of…
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Alzheimer's and home automation
Hi everybody, (a Reddit user suggested I join & post this) My mom was diagnosed spring 2022 and lives alone in a different city, so I started using “smart home tech” to make sure she was ok and can be notified of any issues. While discussing my installation in my local support group, the feedback I received was very…
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Stages of Dementia/Alzheimers
I see many of you posting about what stage your LO is in with their disease. While my mom's diagnosis is fairly new, her doctor has made no mention of what stage she may be in. In your cases, did this information come from the doctor? I don't necessarily need to know mom's stage, was mostly curious about it. Thanks in…
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Asking for help(3)
Alzheimer’s/dementia is hard - especially on caregivers. This past week was so rough on Friday I realized I needed to bring more people into my circle.I asked someone to help make a list of questions for the doctor (next visit in 3 weeks) I asked another person to spend the day with me and my LO Finally, I’m going to an in…
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Chammer
In another thread you talked about your business, and that your husband had a problem with alcohol. PLEASE follow this link. https://iv.iiarjournals.org/content/24/2/231 It's past time to have him checked, and the doctor needs to know about the drinking problem.
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discussion about progressing dementia with dad
My father was diagnosed with Early Onset Alzheimers at the age of 56 and is now 64 and we are seeing progressing paranoia/agitation/aggression with neighbors/strangers to the point that I'm afraid he is going to end up getting hurt or hurting someone else. I wouldn't be surprised at all at this point if the police get…
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Has anyone followed up on this article from MIT
Brain wave stimulation may improve Alzheimer’s symptoms | MIT News | Massachusetts Institute of Technology Interesting and would like to know if anyone has ever tried this method.
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Time to ditch the pants?
So, my FIL refuses to allow his pants/pull-ups to be pulled down or taken off. I know it’s a privacy issue. We have tried keeping him covered, asking him to do it, talking him through it, putting something in his hands, etc. But he gets a grip on those pants before he even stands, and tries to hold them up the entire time…
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Moving day looms for mom
doom and gloom atmosphere continues. Now she is insisting on washing and drying all her blankets. Instead of sorting out all the junk on top of both dressers. The movers called and said they are doing it at 3-5 not 8-9 tomorrow but that’s ok she doesn’t need to move in until Saturday, right? Me. Um no you are taking her…
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From no sleep to lots of sleep?
My mom has lived with me only for a month but while she was at her home, I watched her most of the day via cameras I installed for her safety. She never slept - literally. She would lay down or sit down, fall asleep, and 20 minutes later be up again pacing through the house. When this happened, she would be even more…
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Dementia and hoarding
Mom lives with my brother now after a recent dementia diagnosis. It is a good safe place for her. The problem is her house. It is in very bad shape! Mom does not want us in the house unless she is with us. She tells us what we can work on while we are there. When tested executive decision making skills were extremely low.…
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Family member taking advantage
I just found out my niece went shopping with my mother that has Alzheimer’s. It was the end of Dec. When I saw the charges, I thought my mothers card had been stolen. My mother spent $1300. 1,000 on herself for a black leather jacket and pants. She’s 82 for gods sake! She thinks she looks like Sandy from grease! Good Lord!…
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Facebook delusions
My LO spends most of her days (and nights) on Facebook and believes celebrities are communicating with her directly. She has never really understood how social media works and my sibling and I have reprimanded her many times over the years for inappropriate or embarrassing posts. Now it's become delusional in that she…
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Let's recommend whatever the things you think it is useful
Things make your life easier when taking care of LOs, or things making their life more comfortable, convenient, etc. Things you cannot live without. Big or small. Expensive or cheap. For example, someone recommended PureWick catheter before. What else?
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Caring for Uncooperative LO
How do you get your LO to cooperate with you trying to care for them- dressing, clean up, eating, drinking, etc? My 101 year old dad will not cooperate with my sister and I who are caring for him. Every doctor and nurse tells him and us he needs to drink more- he won't. He recently had a catheter put in. It needs to be…
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Wishing and hoping
Hi, My Mom thanked me, by sending a picture in a text, for a necklace for Valentine's Day. Apparently someone did a very nice thing, and sent her a heart necklace, in the mail; the accompanying note was sweet and was signed my Dad's name (ADLO.) She thought I had sent it, since it seemed like something I (their daughter)…
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mom has mild dementia, and i am living with her
hi; it's surely hard on me, and most certainly on mom. she been living alone since 1996, on a little acreage outside town, which is 16 miles away. her church friends been concern for awhile with her driving back and forth to Wednesday night meets and Sunday morning church services. my brother's wife found a specialist and…
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She wants to go home(1)
I have been caring for my mom for 5+ years now, having moved her into my house only a month ago. She has been diagnosed with moderate+ Alzheimers. My biggest stress currently is that she wants to go home. I''ve had "the conversation" with her twice now, but will likely not do that again. It stresses her out and I can tell…
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MMSE shenanigans again
Mom had a follow up visit with her NP in the neurology department. Her MMSE score has improved to 28. She only missed remembering the three words- could remember one, and then later, two. She also didn’t know exactly which floor of the building the doctor’s office was on. I dropped her off at the entryway built into that…
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Moving day is set - am I ready?
Hi everyone,Well, after some confusion with a change in ownership/management, the SNF has accepted mom and moving day is set. This is a facility that is about 60 residents and is all dementia patients. Mom has lived with me for 12 years and has had slowly progressing dementia for at least 5 years. The facility is about 60…
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National Caregivers Day
Today is National Caregivers Day. I only have this to give you when you deserve all the beautiful things the universe has to offer. It's your heart, caregivers, that strives to fill the empty soothe agitation calm fears in others The mind says I can't I won't The heart says I will And I will succeed fail phone it in knock…
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Paid Caregiver Here
Hi, I have decades of experience as a live-in caregiver, but not for an Alzheimer's or any type of dementia patient. My paralyzed friend and client recently died. Needing work and security, I find myself having accepted a position that feels very uncertain, very scary, in some ways, with someone who seems quite wonderful…
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anosagnosia
My wife and I have been my brother’s main caretakers for almost 5 months. He will not take his medicine every day, nor will he keep his appointments woth his doctors. One is an oncologist My brother has a mild form of leukemia), and one is a neurologist, who recommended that my brother get a more thorough…
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Looking for help for Early onset Alz Weston, FL area
We are looking for inhome help for 58 year old female Early Onset Alz. She lives with her husband who works and has great support from her 90 year old mother and her daughter but more is needed. I am trying to assist these sweet family members in finding the help they need so desperately. Please email to…
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At a loss for direction
I am recenfly learning a family member (grandmother in law) has alz or dementia she had what I best I could call and episode. She is house bound, normally has trouble walking without pain. She doesn''t drive. In This episode she somehow walked to her car, drove to the local Walmart walked into the Walmart, shopped and…
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Coping with agitation
Posted in the wrong forum.. newbie here. I am currently caring full time for my father who has moderate dementia. His partner (not my mother) is away on a 2 week overseas vacation with her friends. He has pronounced sundowning and gets severe agitation in the evenings. His partner is not answering his messages (phone…
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Move Mom In or Stay in AL - Advice Needed
My mom is transitioning from mild to moderate stage and I could really use some advice. Some Background: A year and a half ago, I moved my mother from her home 2 hours away into an AL to be closer to me. She had been living alone and I noticed that Covid isolation was accelerating her dementia. My husband and I then moved…
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Well I tired
Here again, My brother blew everything when he started going down to the 7/11 and getting wine. Hiding it from me in his room. Wine and cancer meds didn't go well together. He called me up to his room saying he couldn't walk. He threw up in his breakfast plate. I called 911 they took him to the ER. and then he was admitted…
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Bible Verse to Lift You Up 2/15/23
DROWNING TODAY with fear, anger, sadness or loneliness? HAVE FAITH! JESUS IS GOD'S SON. HE CAN TAKE CARE OF US. He encourages us and guides our thoughts when we call out to Him. Matthew 14:22-33 New International Version Jesus Walks on the Water 22 Immediately Jesus made the disciples get into the boat and go on ahead of…
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Moving MIL to MC this month worried of her decline
My husband is an only child, and my MIL is so dependent on him/ the both of us. We are mentally and physically drained. She has lived with us for over a year and now we have both decided to have her placed in MC. He has been the only male in her life since his father passed away in 1998. I have been her primary caregiver…