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Seroquel and Lorazepam
My DH had his doctor appt this week. The doctor added Lorazepam (for anxious episodes) to be taken as needed. He told me not to give his Seroquel (he takes 50mg am and pm) and Lorazepam at the same time or he would be extremely drowsy. Is anyone else’s LO on both of these meds? How far after the Seroquel do you give the…
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Meet N Greet
Hello, We are Scotty and Rachel. Married for 41 years. Rachel has been diagnosed with Mild Dimentia. We are new to this community and look forward to interacting , supporting and sharing. Our journey started about 3 years ago. With trial and error we have been coping on our own. Now that we have a community, we know we are…
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Increased Saliva with Donepezil
Good morning! My DH was diagnosed last year with White Matter Small Vascular Disease and earlier this year was also confirmed with Alzheimer’s by blood test and Nuclear Pet Scan. He started the Donepezil in February. A lot of fatigue, a little nausea but manageable. However, it also seems like he has increased saliva…
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When do you decide to place your spouse in a Facility
My husband is only 61. The confusion started 3 years ago. In the last 7 weeks he has decided fast - no longer uses the restroom, does not eat, have to force him. Can stay up for 2 to 3 days with our much sleep (cat naps - 15 to 30 minutes), constantly pacing, has left the house in the middle of the night with no shoes,…
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New hospital visit
my DW just went into hospital with pneumonia. She is now back at home with in home hospital care. She had this once before two years ago. 24 oxygen and daily nurse visits. It is demanding for me but better here than going to hospital. Another part of this journey.
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The Long Goodbye
My beautiful, sweet husband passed away a little while ago. I was sleeping, and I don’t know how I will ever forgive myself for not being with him. I have to comfort myself knowing that he is free from this awful disease; the pain and confusion. He was the best thing that ever happened to me, and I know this world is a…
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Newly diagnosed DH
My DH 57 years old just diagnosed. It was a long taxing diagnostic process of tests as I’m sure most or some can relate. My DH exhibits a terrible loss of emotions/cold/distant-he becomes mean and harsh- curses. It’s been difficult to let go, but he seems happiest at least for him, when he is alone doing yard work/watching…
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Total Hip Replacement?
My DH is diagnosed with severe hip degeneration and is in need of a hip replacement. DH was always active, but now has little interest in anything but radio and tv and his phone. He started Leqembi 2 weeks ago and I am in a quandry of what to do… He has had steroid injection and intra articular with no relief. He is now…
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Dating while still married and caring for my wife
I've been taking care of my wife for the last six years, and moved her into a memory home three months ago. I'm ready to move on with my life and start dating. I met a woman, but she's concerned I'm still married. I know there are other people out there successfully dealing with this situation. And I've even seen articles…
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Therapy?
My DH is probably between stages 3 and 4. I am mourning the loss of my life partner, stressed by my new responsibilities, and dreading what comes next. My sister wants me to see a therapist, but I view this as another task to complete in an already-busy day. I would appreciate anyone willing to share their experiences,…
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Keep Putting Off MC Visits
Placed DW in MC four years ago, and it was the right decision. Moved her from a deteriorating for-profit facility to a public facility providing excellent care. She is happy in her circumstances - still aware enough to interact on a limited basis with others, feed herself with assistance, and so on. As her early-onset AD…
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Sleeping Patterns Changing
Hi All, I’m noticing my LO isn’t sleeping well at night and now sleeping most of the day. He has severe sleep apnea and we have tried every gadget to help him sleep but he can’t handle the mask at all. He wakes up all night because of dreams that he interacts to. I finally moved to another room so I can get sleep but I…
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Has anyone come up with why they HATE to bath ???
Why is showing or bathing such an issue with this illness. I’m not there yet but not looking forward to that scenario.
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Research- another approach in the search for answers about brain disorders
Explains a lot of behaviors.
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Does he think I’m his Mom?
My DH is stage 6. He’s at home with me. For awhile now he’s been calling my Mom quite often. Do you think he really thinks I’m his Mom?
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Taking Charge
I read this today in “Daily Comforts for Caregivers “ by Pat Samples. “When I’ve had to take charge of some areas of my loved one’s life, he doesn’t want to let go, even when he can’t manage anymore. He’s used to being in charge. Sometimes I have to be strong and insist. I can understand why he wants to maintain control,…
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Using Transcranial Magnetic Stimulation (TMS) to slow AD progression
Has anyone used TMS for AD? I know it is off label, and that it is a cash expense not covered by insurance, but I am looking for a provider in the Northeast (CT/MA/NY/ NH) who could treat my wife. The studies have been small, but reasonably positive in being able to slow progression.
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Durable Power of Attorney and More
This may be one of the most important topics on this forum, so I will keep it brief. Disclaimer: This is not legal advice; please seek counsel from a certified elder law attorney. There is a big difference between Power of Attorney (POA) and Durable Power of Attorney (DPOA). The documents you want are certainly the Durable…
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dont know what to do
my DH is 60 years old and has been diagnostic for alzheimer, we have been in surch of a reason of his behavior,depression,etc ,for 3 years ….in november 2024 we had the answer. I dont know what to do, how this is going to turn out, i feel overwhelmed. Its very dificult to loose your spouse , becouse he dosn´t feel anymore😪
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Obsessed about driving!
I know this has been discussed and I have read all the posts regarding this topic, but I just don’t know what to do. DH with vascular dementia cannot remember what happened 5 minutes ago or what he did today is totally obsessed with wanting his car! We have spoken about when it’s time to stop driving and safety etc and of…
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therapist
Looking for therapist for 23 year old daughter mMother is 72 with moderate dementia. Thanks
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Geriatrician vs. Neurologist
My DH's PCP referred him to a geriatrician, but I wondered if a neurologist would be better. The geriatrician (we had first visit in January and will see her May 20th) is 30 miles from our house. We could see a neurologist locally. Does anyone have an opinion on who is better to treat Alzheimer's/vascular dementia?
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Speech
My DW is in year 3 of EOAD. She’s always been a talker, talking to whomever would listen. The last few months she still talks but with her limited vocabulary she makes no sense. Her words are very clear but all mixed up. I’ve just noticed this past week that now when she talks it starts with a few clear words but then…
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Title Co Trouble
My DH has vascular dementia, and he’s wheelchair bound since his stroke in July of last year. He lives with me at home and I move him around with a hoyer lift. I do my best to make his life as enjoyable as possible. One thing that would make his life more enjoyable is if I had a wheelchair van to take him on rides and go…
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Who can I trust?
Hello all, it's been a while. My bf (46yo EOA) is a very active stage 7b. He is still mobile. We have entered the stage of not wanting to shower but I can get him in there (not fighting l, yelling or scratching tonight). Here is my predicament. I have been trying to find an Adult Foster Home but there aren't many around. I…
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Falls asleep but doesn't stay asleep
DH falls asleep easily at bedtime but doesn't stay asleep. I give him Mirtazapine and I added Benadryl but they don't help. Melatonin didn't help him. He wakes me up three to four times every night, turning on lights, walking around or just sitting on the edge of the bed. Is this common in people with dementia? Is there…
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We made it
My husband passed peacefully this morning. I woke just before and was holding his hand. I had been hoping that he could find an off-ramp, and he did. We have been blessed. My deepest thanks to all of you for your support, sympathy and advice on this long hard road. I'll come back here often. Wishing all of you peace as you…
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Just need to vent a little
On June 5th we left my DH's Neurologists office and were told that he has months to live. We werent told an actual amount of months, just months. Today being fathers day I thought maybe I would get some extra help from one or more of our 4 adult children, but basically it was on me the whole day. Im so frustrated I cant…
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Seroquel
Based on posts I’ve read on here, I asked my husband‘s neurologist for Seroquel to help with sleep and behavior. I’d like to know from others experiences how long it took for the medication to work? How long before a noticeable difference was noticed? The main thing that I’m hoping for is successful sleep through the…
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50 years
In a few days we will have our 50th wedding anniversary. I know for a certainty that she is the best thing that ever happened to me in my life. She last recognized me in 2017 and has been bedridden since 2021. She is 73 lovely as ever, with a few streaks of grey in her hair. I have stunning wonderful memories rated from G…