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Bible Verse to Lift You Up 12/1/24
GOD IS WITH YOU AND ME Psalm 139:16-18 New International Version “Your eyes saw my unformed body; all the days ordained for me were written in your book before one of them came to be. 17 How precious to me are your thoughts, God! How vast is the sum of them! 18 Were I to count them, they would outnumber the grains of sand—…
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It’s over
MIL died early this morning. At the moment I’m feeling profoundly relieved and grateful that her journey is done. I know there’s a host of emotions waiting for me but just now I’m going to enjoy a little peace. It’s early morning here and I’ll wait til family members are up to call them. But the funny thing is I wanted to…
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Happy Thanksgiving
Thinking of the community here, both past and present, and wanted you all to know that I'm so very thankful for the opportunity to interact with you, and for the kindness that everyone meets when they share their journey here. This truly is one of the most reasoned, courteous, and helpful forums around.💖 Your person may…
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Terminal agitation or restlessness
Mom started this stage of the dying process yesterday . Made worse when she refused her Valium. She hasn’t yet started morphine because she doesn’t appear to be in pain. Neither does she have labored breathing even though we can’t keep her cannula in her nose. It was really bad yesterday and only a little better today with…
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Out of psych hospital
After a suicidal attempt and a month journey in a psych hospital, she will be released tomorrow ! The AL is taking her back in a more secure wing Don’t know what to expect .. she has been wanting to die for the last few months , begging , crying and when she finally met a doctor to discuss she just said it was no longer…
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Prime example of clueless family
This was in the newsfeed I have: Prime example of clueless siblings! makes ya mad!
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Improving emergency care for people with dementia
Michael Ellenbogen has been working on this important project for some time. He is one of the co-authors in the linked article. https://outlook.live.com/mail/0/inbox/id/AQMkADAwATE0YTEwLTZkZWMtZWY4Ni0wMAItMDAKAEYAAAMe8X2mg8UKQKMXq%2BSo2HGuBwC6%2FjKngSETRo24yIoaaSzbAAACAQw
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Not Sure if it’s the End
Hi all. Been caring for my aunt for almost 2 years. She’s almost in her mid-nineties and came to live with hubby and me close to 2 years ago. It’s been a rough ride, as I’m sure it has for many, here. My Aunt is almost fully incontinent now, and has frequent delusions. I have a little bit of a medical background, but…
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Building diet resources after my father's early-onset diagnosis - seeking your experiences
Hello everyone, My father was diagnosed with early-onset Alzheimer's earlier this year, and through our journey, we've found it challenging to find good dietary resources and support. I'm working on building an online resource to help others facing similar challenges. Before building it, I'd really value hearing about your…
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Has anyone had a PWD who experiences seeing shapes, etc. that appear transparent and "see through"?
Hi, My Mom is 102 and, while having extremely short term memory, has never until now described or shown evidence of other dementia-related symptoms. The past few days, however, she's convinced that she's not at her house and needs someone to pick her up and take her back home (she's been in AL for the past 9 years), etc.…
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While I wait
I’m working on trading in my anger at all those people who made this journey harder. I don’t want to hang on to the bitterness.
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This is hard....
Hello all....I'm new here and I am feeling so overwhelmed. I am the caregiver for my sister who has Alzheimer's and the things I have gone through over the past year has been exhausting. I have no other help and her Medicare has been cancelled, so I'm kind of on my own until after January when I can apply to have it…
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Some good advice
This is my caregiver education for the month of November as an adult foster care provider for my loved one. I thought it was good advice that we can all use.Communication and Interpersonal SkillsThe caregiver/member relationship can often be tenuous and difficult. Home care is a stressful setting that typically involves…
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Keeping a list , documenting the journey
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Anyone ever move a loved one on Medicaid to another State?
My sister’s nursing home has asked us to move her. They are citing that she is “exit seeking” and that she is difficult to deal with - saying that she needs to be in a memory care wings. They do not offer the service. I suspect that is not the true reason - yes, she is difficult, and she is an exit seeker (5-6 times a day…
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Language issues
My spouse has had problems with language for several months. I mention it when people ask about him, but I struggle to explain it. So, yesterday, I started a list. He was staring out the kitchen window (at the sunset). When I asked, "What's up?" he said, " I'm looking at the thing that's going to go away soon." What do…
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I have a question about Parkinson's Disease
I have a friend who has Parkinson's Disease. Her voice is very soft and I have to ask her to repeat two or three times before I can understand what she is saying. She wears hearing aids and probably doesn't hear her own voice well. I would like to suggest that she receive speech therapy to improve her voice and speech. Can…
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Advice on auditory hallucinations?
I've been searching and reading the forums for a while, looking for my situation but I've not quite found it. I'm a caregiver for my aunt. She's diagnosed with Dementia, but doing quite well, able to clothe herself, eat, walk around, etc. The biggest problem is hearing voices, as she has been for a year. For the most part…
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Decline stopped. Is this the new normal?
What a roller coaster it's been! Earlier this month, I asked for advice on my mom who entered hospice and was declining daily. No longer able to swallow and was sleeping more often. I thought it was close her final weeks. This past week she doesn't seem to be declining any longer. She is eating again (although not alot)…
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What is wrong with me? Or is there?
Mom is most likely a few days or a couple weeks away from death. Yet I just feel numb…. Or I just don’t feel at all? Yes, she’s 86, with pulmonary fibrosis, on oxygen for 7 months now. And having had dementia for several years, and looking back, cognitive issues for a couple years before that We lost our son in April of…
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Another reason to watch the PWD's finances: the IRS
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How to help my mom: she forgets that she went to the bathroom (#2) only a few hours after going
Hi everyone! My mom is almost 83, and in great health, but her memory is not the same over the past year. Over the past few weeks, my mom keeps on thinking that she is constipated, and that she hasn't passed a bowel movement in two days. I explain to her that she did so earlier, and it still doesn't register. She continues…
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Lecanemab 3 year data
We listened to a presentation the other day by doctor at Duke University. He mentioned there is 3 year data now on lecanemab. He presented the info in a support group for those who are getting lecanemab or who may be interested in getting it. Open Label Extension Data Shows Lecanemab’s Continued Effect on Alzheimer Disease…
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Seloquel
I am new here. My mother was diagnosed with ES VD in August. She has been prescribed Seloquel which is very concerning to me. Based on the info I have been able to gather, she does not have any behavior issues that would warrant being prescribed this drug. She is docile, but has had some anxiety and sadness in the…
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Alzheimer’s-Posterior Cortical Atrophy
I also posted this on Caring for Spouse page. Don’t remember if I posted this already but I recently realized symptoms my husband had early on several years way before diagnosis. He complained of dry eyes but I think he just couldn’t describe what he was seeing. He also had difficulty spelling common words and doing simple…
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Bible Verse to Lift You Up 11/19/24
THE LORD BLESSES US Psalm 29:11 New International Version 11 The Lord gives strength to his people; the Lord blesses his people with peace. me: When you and I love and obey the Lord, we too are His people. Lord, You are my God. Thank you for always being with me and giving me the strength and peace I need each day. In…
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Moving LO to a condo
Both my parents have dementia/AD. They both are in the moderate stage and they can no longer live in their house far from any family. My siblings want to buy a condo with my parent’s funds, move them to it and get them 24/7 care. They think my parents will easily adjust. I’m not convinced this is the right solution. I’m…
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Remeron (mirtrazapine) vs Trazodone
Anyone here have experience with Remeron? I called the family doctor this afternoon because we couldn’t wait for the first neurologist visit next week. Mom cries all day, every day, complains incessantly about burning in her feet and fingertips, still complaining about the irritation in her private area( that has been…
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How many broken TVs is the limit?
DH gets peeved some nights if I ask him to brush his teeth and he gets worked up if his phone charger is not cooperating & this has led to an eruption of him throwing his phone on a few occasions. Last time he broke the TV. Time before just missed my head. He threw it tonight & I have not checked the TV for damage…just…
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