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Trying to self stage DH
I have gotten some wonderful words of encouragement and great information on staging from you and I so appreciate it!!! I still have a question though. I read the stages and see some things in one category but only a couple in a later category. What could that mean? My Mr. Math has gone to someone who is struggling with…
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Guacamole...
My husband was diagnosed with Alz. a year ago, though I had been taking notes on things I had been noticing for at least 3 years prior to that. He's still quite capable of caring for himself and still does small projects around the house. Most people only seem to notice that he can't think of certain words now and then.…
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Memory Test struggles
My wife was diagnosed with early onset about 6 months ago, although I had been noticing problems and changes several months before that. She is currently receiving monthly Kisunla treatments - she's had three so far. At her last treatment she was given a "memory test" - she was asked several basic questions (what State do…
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Feeling So Lost
Hello everyone, I’m thrilled to have found this site. I have been feeling so lost, confused, sad, and hopeless. my husband of 54 years was diagnosed with Alzheimer’s over year ago. He is progressing rapidly and as I continue to just try with all my strength to make it through another day, I’m thankful to have found this…
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Delirium vs night terrors, what's the difference?
My DH has VD and has interrupted sleep for over 7 yrs. I don't notice any afternoon or early evening agitation. He falls asleep within 5 min of hitting the pillow and is asleep for 60-90 min and then the up/down repeatedly going to the bathroom begins. 150 mg trazadone has helped decrease the uo/down frequency from 20+ to…
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Report to DMV
have any of you resorted to reporting your loved one to the DMV due to their diagnosis? How did that go? Was it really anonymous?
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He won’t go to the bathroom
My DH is recently incontinent. Luckily I’ve been able to get him to wear depends. But lately he just will not go to the bathroom. He’ll go hours without urinating (or I guess urinating in the depends). When he acts like he needs to go, I ask him if he needs to use the bathroom and he says, yes where do I go? I take him to…
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Stages
Who determines the stages and how are they determined? The most frustrating p pop art of this disease for me is not knowing exactly what my DH has Dementia or Alzheimer’s). And what stage? His primary referred to his disease as Dementia and the neurologist referred to it as Alzheimer’s. They have him on 29mg of Memantine…
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Heartfelt Gratitude
I’m overwhelmed at the kindness, concern, and helpful suggestions of books, online therapy, and other resources- especially the reminders of the importance of self-care. The latter is the one I have always had a difficult time with but I know and heed all your comments. That said, does anyone have any recommendations for…
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What Happened?
Hello. I am new to this resource and have greatly appreciated all the advice/stories/information I have read so far! The clinical suspicion for my DH is EO AD. Less than 2 years ago, dimentia hit my dad hard and fast. I spent 6 months supporting him and my mom through it all. My mom needed a high level of emotional support…
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The Good , the Bad , and the Ugly of late stage 7
I’m posting this mostly for Josey Wales, and for others who are now in 7 . I want to be fair and give an accurate picture of what it looks like for others. So just as a little review, my husband 59 has had Alzheimer’s for 7 years. He has never hit a plateau , but just crawls along at a glacial pace. He is at home on…
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Could incontinence be from medication?
My DH is on a low dose of risperidone 0.25 mg twice a day and 25 mg Zoloft once a day. A few weeks after starting them he became incontinent. From what I read it’s a rare side effect and at this low dose I thought it was just a coincidence and that it was just the inevitable progression of the disease. Has anyone else…
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Taking Away Driving Privileges
My DH (57) was diagnosed a little over a year ago with EOAD. He’s not quite in stage 4 yet, and still drives only to places in a 5 mile radius of home. And only to places that he goes regularly like the grocery store and they gym. I know that eventually he will have to stop driving but I dread that because he feels that’s…
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Reminder: hospital induced delirium is real
My husband was released from 2.5 days in the hospital. I spent all day Sunday and Monday with him except to run home to feed the dogs and let them out to pee. I left the hospital at 10 both nights to sleep at home. First night he had sun downers, calling me multiple times until 2:20 am. The 2nd night was pure hell. We live…
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App for Medication Reminders
Is there an app you would recommend for medication reminders? Thanks in advance.
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Memory care
My DW is has progressed very quickly. She was diagnosed with mild cognitive impairment about 2 1/2 years ago and is now clearly in the moderate stages. I'm afraid she is moving into the need for memory care and I really don't want to do that. I don't think she's unsafe, but there are sanitary issues, e g. leaving dog feces…
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Neurophysiology test completed
I have been on this journey for over a year trying to find the diagnosis. My DH has severe sleep apnea (36 times per night) so we have had the cpac for 9 months now. Then they wanted his test done. Did all the blood work and MRI. Nothing noted. it’s been hard because it’s clear he is having trouble with organization and…
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I just had to ask how much time he has left
My husband's doctor has been strongly suggesting that I put my husband in memory care. There are days when that option seems attractive but it is unaffordable. I asked the doctor how long he thinks my DH will live. I was shocked when he said "about a year". DH has mixed dementia, Alzhiemer's and Vascular dementia. He is…
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THC for caregiver
So this may not be for everyone. But I became so desperate for some relief I figured, why not. It had been over 40 years since I had my last puff so I went to one of these smoke shops and got some gummies. I go lightly, just using a half of one. My wife of 40 years is in her later stages and we go through all the stuff you…
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Just need to talk to my friends (210)
I started this months new thread, 210, but entitled it 110. I tried to delete or change it but didn't work. Maybe this will. The other one is saved somewhere. So sorry for the confusion.
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risperidone vs seroquel
I've recently only learned about seroquel by being on this site. My DW has been on risperidone for a very long time. One of the side effects is akathisia, or restlessness. Over the last several months she literally is spending 90% of the day on her feet pacing. She can't sit for more than a few seconds and she's up again.…
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Wanting to go home
Does it ever end, talking about going home? DH says "I need to head to the house" or "I need to go home." Please tell me it will stop. It's driving me crazy.
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Do You Ever?
Do you ever get so confused listening to your PWD that you wonder if you are the one impaired? There are times my DH’s view of reality is so different from mine that it makes me question who is grounded in accurate memory of the event. It is hard to describe but his verbal skills are excellent and in tact. He made his…
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Area Agency on Aging assessment
Has anyone gone through a screening assessment with the Area Agency on Aging for Medicaid waiver in Florida? From what I understand, based on your answers you get assigned a priority for the waitlist for the waiver. If anyone has experience with this, I’d appreciate any advice or tips.
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Seroquel vs Mirtazapine
I've been reading a lot on this forum about Seroquel. DH is on Mirtazapine, and I've wondered if Seroquel would be better. Has anyone here switched from Mirtazapine to Seroquel? When I asked our PCP about it, she said she could research it, but she also suggested that I ask the wonderful people here if they've had any…
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Seroquel
The neurologist just prescribed seroquel. Any comments
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Project Lifesaver- free gps tracking watch
https://projectlifesaver.org/ Project Lifesavers is part of local sheriff’s offices. They give out free gps tacking watches to Alzheimer’s and dementia patients. They will take information on your loved one in the event he or she is lost.
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Should we travel?
My DH has been diagnosed with MCI although I suspect that he is further along in the process. He has always been close to his sister who lives several states away; and her husband passed away recently after a difficult battle with ALS. His sister is hosting a "celebration of life" open house at her home in a few weeks in…
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Facebook Alzheimer/Dementia Group
I am curious if members here are aware of the Facebook group titled "Alzheimer's/Dementia Help & Support Group". A I have noted in other posts, I only learned about this forum later in my wife's condition but found it, and continue to do so, extremely helpful. Not being active at all on social media until very recently and…
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Frustrated and overwhelmed
This is my first post. I am not tech savvy. I am so frustrated and overwhelmed with my husband. I try to be patient but I find myself getting mad at him and it isn’t fair.my heart knows this but in the moment I lash out. I am in NH and can’t seem to find a local support group that I can attend in person. I do think if I…