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Incontinence Underwear….Depends v/s Always
Not knowing of any other brand I got my LW to use Depends at the onset which was 7 months ago. I recently found out about Always. My question is which one is better or are they basically the same.
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What to do?
Last few days DH has taken $600 out of his bank account, answered a phone call at 8:15 am from some scam place asking for his Medicare # because they will pay for a back and knee brace. Thank goodness I intervened as he was looking for his Medicare card! He woke up and called the house phone at 5 am! Not sure what to do .…
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How often does this happen.???
my wife apologized for getting upset with me!!!
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Missing at @M1
I know people come and go and life changes, but I can’t help missing @M1s comments. I’ve been a member for years. I mostly read and learned, rarely commenting until more recently. I looked forward to the almost daily responses to members postings. Funny how that happens. You form an attachment of sorts on this forum to…
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Incontinence Diapers
Not knowing of any other brand I got my OH to use Depends at the onset which was 7 months ago. I recently found out about Always. My question is which one is better or are they basically the same.
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CBD to help manage symptoms
Any one have experience with CBD to help manage anxiety and agitation in your loved ones?
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Nonstop Singing
Hello I am new to the group. Been caring for my DH with vascular dementia for about 3 years. Recently he has started singing and humming non stop. Sometimes I can drown it out but other times it is very un-nerving. He attends an adult day service program twice a week where he has also started the nonstop singing. Any…
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Slipped right into Stage 7
At the beginning of October my husband lived in a memory care, could walk on his own, feed himself, and say several words, sometimes even a whole sentence. He was partially incontinent. His agitation/aggression landed him in a Geri-psych unit, and during his time there, he had aspiration pneumonia. After that, he gradually…
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Holiday celebrations
Hello Friends, My DH is moderate - late stage ALZ. He is not oriented to date/place/time, he is basically non-verbal. He is very unsteady on his feet. He requires help in the bathroom. He recognizes family when he sees faces, but I’m not sure if he knows our names. I am struggling with depression and dread the upcoming…
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Care Givers and Spouse Online Communication
Looking for an easy way for our two care givers and myself to share daily information regarding the experiences with my wife. Would like to be able to privately post information such as meals consumed, surprises, issues, helpful tips, questions among the group, etc. Has anyone used an app or program they might suggest?
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Three Years in Memory Care
Today marks 3 years since I placed DW in Memory Care. I have been blessed as DW acclimated immediately to MC & has been happy and well cared for there. This morning I made her blueberry pancakes and brought them to her for breakfast. At this point she needs to be hand fed and no longer communicates but since she cleaned…
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The Long Goodbye is Over
My dear husband passed away early Monday morning. He was at home and with me and our two children. He was diagnosed 3 1/2 years ago and had been slowly progressing over time. He was always cheerful and I am so thankful for that and for all of the support that we had. About three weeks ago, he was becoming so weak that we…
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New member
Just signed up today! Hope to get a better understanding of what is yet to come.
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How to respond
My LO has recently taken a large turn for the worst. I am 12 years his junior and still work full time but have homecare during the day. It is getting much more difficult at nights. He keeps asking every ten minutes for me to take him home or he needs to go home. I say ok lets go and a lot of times I will drive around the…
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Bible Verse to Lift You Up 10/27/24
Dear Caregiver, there are many verses here, so my suggestion: Read a bit now, pray and think about it, and come back later to read a bit more. It is always worthwhile rereading and meditating on familiar verses especially these about love. You give up and do so much because you choose to help someone who needs you. That is…
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Bible Verse to Lift You Up 11/19/24
THE LORD BLESSES US Psalm 29:11 New International Version 11 The Lord gives strength to his people; the Lord blesses his people with peace. me: When you and I love and obey the Lord, we too are among His people. Lord, You are my God. Thank you for always being with me and giving me the strength and peace I need each day.…
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"Ants in his pants"
Has anyone experienced what i call "ants in his pants"? My DH can not sit for more than 10 minutes. He keeps going to the kitchen, opening the refrigerator, freezer, kitchen cabinets looking for something to eat. He just won't sit. It is so exhausting as I have to get up and see what he is up to? Any suggestions?
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Diagnosis Difficulties
Hello everyone, I'm new to this site. I guess for me as a caregiver for my husband is knowing what the diagnosis is. He was recently hospitalized and I was given three possible diagnosis. (Ubspecified pyschosis, frontotemporal dementia, paranoid delusions). He was hospitalized several times within a short span of time and…
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Do they need to take any responsibility???
Everything I read says that a person with Alzheimers can't help how they act and react. As a caretaker I am encouraged to be calm, take the blame for whatever, and always be patient and never argue. But my question is, do they lose all obligation to try to be positive and kind? I'm so tired of the negativity. I get it, but…
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DH has severe rash since taking Donepezil
DH was diagnosed with early onset alz about 6 months ago. He is tolerating Donepezil, although he did have headaches initially. He does have a severe rash on his chest and back which the VA has diagnosed as Grover's Disease. I am wondering if this could be a side effect of Donepezil. Anyone else experiencing this?
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Where to start??
I'm new to this community and struggling with the obvious cognitive decline of my DH. We're just beginning this journey and I'm a bit overwhelmed with the challenges of getting a true diagnosis and establishing the best quality medical team for his needs. His primary care doctor did not seem to take his symptoms seriously…
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Total incontinence would be a blessing
DH still uses the toilet, usually with my guidance but occasionally he will try to do it on his own when I’m not watching. I have caught him going in places he shouldn’t, including a wicker trash can (wicker doesn’t hold liquid) and the corner of the bedroom. He will pull it out and start peeing even while walking to the…
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Agitation and Demands
Help....My DH demands ALL my attention and wants me with him ALL the time. Triggers are: me on the phone (without it being on speaker phone), me doing anything I'm interested in, me watching any TV program I like...etc... Just today he was fine until I would not go outside in the pouring rain to get the pressure washer out…
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Just crappie day
You wake up in a good mood. DH is so negative. You carry on. Try to get him in better mood in nope. Dh complains his tv is not working right. I work it fine explain to him what to do. DH tries again can't do it. Worse mood. Think I'll take a ride! Just me complaining.
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Books For Beginners Caring For A Loved one
These 2 books were a tremendous help for me when I started on this dreadful journey 5 years ago. Being new, I was not aware of Support Forums but reading these 2 books helped me kinda understand how my world was going to change …. and unfortunately not for the better.
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Donepezil
My mom was diagnosed with dementia over a year ago and has been on donepezil since. I would like any info people could give me with they're experience with the drug. My mom takes hers at night but I notice some take it in the morning, any suggestions on which works best? Thank you in advance.
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Donepezil
Unfortunately I have not seen any improvement in my mom‘s short term memory with this medication. Only the side effects like nightmares and things like that. I’m wondering if anybody has experience with their loved one getting off of this medication and if there is any side effects. I read one article that said if someone…
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Donepezil and Memantine
There have been several questions recently about these two. I have even responded to some of them but I have another question. Some have said that they have seen no affect from these drugs but if they are only meant to slow the progress of decline and Alzheimers progresses so much differently from patient to patient, how…
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Respite and Guilt
Oh, this damn disease. I was re-reading the super helpful "The Cavalry isn't Coming" post again and remembering how darn true that is. I've been on my own with this for 4 years, though have gotten a friend and sister to help exactly one time each. And now, I got a sister and a couple of friends to come take care of my DW…
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"Child" proofing cabinets
DH is at the point where he is starting to go into cabinets looking for things. Any recommendations? Do baby proof ones work or will he be able to open them? Any ideas will be so helpful. Thank you all.