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Scared
My mom was officially diagnosed with Alzheimer’s last year. I noticed her memory was slipping a lot before the diagnosis but my mom kept blaming it on old age, at the time she was around 66-67yrs old. She’s now 69 and she refuses to accept her diagnosis even though she been rapidly losing her memory and has been…
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Incontinence Underwear….Depends v/s Always
Not knowing of any other brand I got my LW to use Depends at the onset which was 7 months ago. I recently found out about Always. My question is which one is better or are they basically the same.
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Decline stopped. Is this the new normal?
What a roller coaster it's been! Earlier this month, I asked for advice on my mom who entered hospice and was declining daily. No longer able to swallow and was sleeping more often. I thought it was close her final weeks. This past week she doesn't seem to be declining any longer. She is eating again (although not alot)…
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What to do?
Last few days DH has taken $600 out of his bank account, answered a phone call at 8:15 am from some scam place asking for his Medicare # because they will pay for a back and knee brace. Thank goodness I intervened as he was looking for his Medicare card! He woke up and called the house phone at 5 am! Not sure what to do .…
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How often does this happen.???
my wife apologized for getting upset with me!!!
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Bedrail advice
My Dad keep saying his neck hurts because he falls out of bed at his facility. He has had a neck cramp since my mom died two months ago, so we really are not sure if he fell out of bed. He is in his own bed, which is a sleep number mattress on a sleep number box spring, on a typical bed frame. So any device can go under…
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long distance - Mom refuses to be evaluated & Dad isn't taking action
My parents live in a different city, and we are deeply concerned about my mom’s health. She is 78 and has been showing signs of memory loss for the last couple of years, which are progressively worsening. She refuses to acknowledge the issue, won’t allow herself to be formally diagnosed, and has made my dad promise not to…
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Missing at @M1
I know people come and go and life changes, but I can’t help missing @M1s comments. I’ve been a member for years. I mostly read and learned, rarely commenting until more recently. I looked forward to the almost daily responses to members postings. Funny how that happens. You form an attachment of sorts on this forum to…
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What is wrong with me? Or is there?
Mom is most likely a few days or a couple weeks away from death. Yet I just feel numb…. Or I just don’t feel at all? Yes, she’s 86, with pulmonary fibrosis, on oxygen for 7 months now. And having had dementia for several years, and looking back, cognitive issues for a couple years before that We lost our son in April of…
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Dementia or Depression
One of the things I have noticed with my aging mother is that she has symptoms that are similar to depression. We got her on an antidepressant and some of the depression symptoms have gone away thankfully. My question is how do you tell the difference if something is dementia related or an acutal mental illness. Its a…
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Mum accusing me of stealing
My mum is accusing me of stealing various things which is obviously very upsetting. She doesn't want me to go to her house any more, is nasty to me when I speak to her and convinced I'm a theft, which is hard because I go to visit, take her and my dad out and now can't support my dad .Any suggestions ? X
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How to handle awareness of diagnosis in parent
Hi, very new here and have lots of questions! I have recently taken on caregiving my MIL who was diagnosed with FTD about 4/5 years ago. My question is related to something that came up today. She was definitely involved and part of appointments regarding her diagnosis in the beginning, multiple medications tried to help…
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Advice on changing living arrangements
Hi, I’m new to this forum and have recently taken on a role as caregiver for my MIL who was diagnosed with FTD about 4 years ago. My husband and I have temporarily moved into her home while we prepare our own home with some improvements with the goal of moving her in with us upon completion. Up to this point she had been…
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Struggling with Healthcare
Hello, I am new to posting. I live in Chicago with my mom who suffers from late onset Alzheimer’s. She was diagnosed in 2016 after showing signs of hallucination. She is now 88. My questions are; Is there advocacy to turn to when you feel lost with healthcare providers. If she is ill they treat symptoms only and send you…
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Microaspirations
Anyone know much about microaspirations in late stage Alzheimer’s? Dad developed a wet cough a few weeks ago. Doctors said it was microaspirations, which is the next phase in decline, but now the caregiver is saying his cough is gone. Do the coughs come and go? I kinda figured once they started, they just continued?
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Mother with AD has Anxiety
I am new here. My mother was just diagnosed with Alzheimer's in August; but I think she has been struggling for longer than that. She is on Aricept and says that it helps her feel less in a fog. She is still living alone; but I am doing her bills for her. However, she is worrying about EVERYTHING. She makes lists in her…
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How to Help with Mother's Aggression - Newly Admitted to Memory Care Facility After Broken Hip
HI all, Im so grateful for everyone here and the support everyone provides. My mother has been admitted to a memory care facility within the last month or so after breaking her hip, having surgery, and living at a rehabilitation center for a month. She had previously been aggressive and yelling in situation where she was…
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Fabricated memories affecting caregiving
Hello! I care for my 87 year old MIL w Parkinson's related dementia that's slowly progressing these last 3 years. She was in a home last year for a broken hip, and about 2 months after returning from the home, she started telling me about remembering times that since being home, I'd dropped her. This memory flash (which…
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Incontinence Diapers
Not knowing of any other brand I got my OH to use Depends at the onset which was 7 months ago. I recently found out about Always. My question is which one is better or are they basically the same.
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CBD to help manage symptoms
Any one have experience with CBD to help manage anxiety and agitation in your loved ones?
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Another reason to watch the PWD's finances: the IRS
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Nonstop Singing
Hello I am new to the group. Been caring for my DH with vascular dementia for about 3 years. Recently he has started singing and humming non stop. Sometimes I can drown it out but other times it is very un-nerving. He attends an adult day service program twice a week where he has also started the nonstop singing. Any…
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Slipped right into Stage 7
At the beginning of October my husband lived in a memory care, could walk on his own, feed himself, and say several words, sometimes even a whole sentence. He was partially incontinent. His agitation/aggression landed him in a Geri-psych unit, and during his time there, he had aspiration pneumonia. After that, he gradually…
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How to help my mom: she forgets that she went to the bathroom (#2) only a few hours after going
Hi everyone! My mom is almost 83, and in great health, but her memory is not the same over the past year. Over the past few weeks, my mom keeps on thinking that she is constipated, and that she hasn't passed a bowel movement in two days. I explain to her that she did so earlier, and it still doesn't register. She continues…
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Holiday celebrations
Hello Friends, My DH is moderate - late stage ALZ. He is not oriented to date/place/time, he is basically non-verbal. He is very unsteady on his feet. He requires help in the bathroom. He recognizes family when he sees faces, but I’m not sure if he knows our names. I am struggling with depression and dread the upcoming…
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Mom is consumed with sadness...
My 58-year old mom with early-onset Alzheimers lives with me. She has been with me now for a year and a half. Her type of dementia effects her visual comprehension first and foremost, which prevents her from doing any of the things she enjoys. She can see, but she doesn't understand what she is looking at. Lately, she has…
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Just Diagnosed with AD
Good Morning, New to this group. I was just diagnosed with AD (early stage). I am 60 and I still function at a high level. Because I can function at a high level, it is very difficult to accept this. My biggest fear is that of the unknown. How long am I going to be able function at this level? When will the debilitating…
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Care Givers and Spouse Online Communication
Looking for an easy way for our two care givers and myself to share daily information regarding the experiences with my wife. Would like to be able to privately post information such as meals consumed, surprises, issues, helpful tips, questions among the group, etc. Has anyone used an app or program they might suggest?
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Lecanemab 3 year data
We listened to a presentation the other day by doctor at Duke University. He mentioned there is 3 year data now on lecanemab. He presented the info in a support group for those who are getting lecanemab or who may be interested in getting it. Open Label Extension Data Shows Lecanemab’s Continued Effect on Alzheimer Disease…
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Seloquel
I am new here. My mother was diagnosed with ES VD in August. She has been prescribed Seloquel which is very concerning to me. Based on the info I have been able to gather, she does not have any behavior issues that would warrant being prescribed this drug. She is docile, but has had some anxiety and sadness in the…