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It's time...
We had a bed open up in a small group facility nearby, and we've seen dramatic decline in the past month or so especially with incontinence. So I'm putting everything in place to move him into this facility possibly as early as this Friday. I've read here on several posts that once you move them in, you should leave them…
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90 Year Old Mom with Dementia
Hello, I am new here and this is my first time joining any group. My mother is in a nursing home and was diagnosed with Multiple Myeloma 2 years ago (which seems to be in remission) and has Dementia as well. She is really struggling with the fact that she is losing her memory. She constantly thinks her room drives to her…
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My 83 years old Mother thinks the Male Neighbor is stalking her & she now thinks he is in my room
My Mother was diagnosed with Dementia in June 2023, she is a retired teacher (55 years) & hold 3 master's Degrees, she was extremely attractive, but she was always unkind, selfish, and focused on men. My father was not good to her, they divorced when I was a baby (he was also a very Dark Black man, and for light-skinned…
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Using telephone
Hello, I am new to this forum and this is my first post. My mom who has dementia is living with my dad in assisted living. Prior to moving, she drove herself to a local salon weekly for hair styling. Since moving and at the direction of her doctor, she has stopped driving. There is a hair salon at her assisted living…
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Alzheimer's and cataract surgery
Our Mother has Moderate Alzheimer's with cognitive difference (heading toward severe, but not there yet) and is a candidate for cataract surgery. My question is: Has anyone gone through the cataract surgery process with someone in this condition? If so, was it difficult on them during the procedure? after? Was it…
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Talking to self on cell phone and paper
I am new to this form. My mother in law has been recently diagnosed with alzheimers and her progression has been quick. Her husband is currently incarcerated and my husband and I were left to take care of her, her horses and bills. We recently had to take her cell phone away and turn off as she was texting scammers and her…
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Vivid dreams and waking from nightmares
My mom often wakes in the morning very disturbed from vivid dreams and nightmares. She is on Cymbalta and Donepezil, among other meds for cholesterol, blood pressure, etc. I’m wondering if anyone else has had similar issues from the combination of those two meds. I’d like to bring it up with the neurologist later this…
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changed poa
Hi, I'm new here. I believe my mom just changed her poa and took me completely off. Her husband is covering for her and in complete denial about her diagnosis. She was diagnosed with mci 10 years ago and Alz. last Sept. I called the attorney beforehand and told him about her diagnosis. The attorney went ahead and redid it…
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Engagement for early-moderate stage
Hello all, I was wondering if anyone has suggestions for helping someone with early-moderate stage dementia stay engaged? I live with my mom who is not diagnosed (the MSE indicated mild cognitive impairment), but almost certainly has some form of dementia (we are waiting for neurology to schedule an appointment). There is…
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Dementia Support Group
Greetings...I am new here and looking for a Dementia Support Group that may meet in my area (Marietta, GA). Thank you!
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Getting rough--falls and worsening Alzheimer's
Hello! I have been too busy caregiving to be on here regularly, but I need to hear something from somebody. Both my parents have dementia. My mom's is mild and slowly getting worse, and my Dad's has reached a more severe stage of Alzheimer's. They have both been in assisted living since the end of December 2022. My sisters…
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Sudden Worsening of Symptoms
Hi, my 96 year old mother just moved in with me a few weeks ago after living at my brother's home for about 20 months. We are working to find a nursing home situation for her, but in the meantime, we needed to save her money and my brother needed too much HHA care that was depleting her savings. My mother seems happy in…
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Medication for sun downing
Hello all I’m new to this group but not new to this disease. What medication does your loved one take to help with sun downing? Mom was in the hospital for a week with a uti. They put her on seroquel. We had her moved to a rehab for pt. They continued the seroquel. Well it’s making her SO sleepy all the time even on the…
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My son is pulling away from my mom, need advice
My mom has Alzheimer's disease. She got diagnosed a few year ago. She is in a memory care facility and thriving. I am an only child and had to move in with her during the pandemic. She has been at the facility for over a year. She is in the moderate stages. She knows who I am and my husband, but struggles with knowing her…
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New here - looking for emotional support
Dear All, Although, writing this brings me no pleasure, I got to a point where I no longer keep it inside and I need to vent, as well as benefit from your wisdom and experience. I did scroll and read few of the entries, but somehow I feel my situation is rather unique (I am aware of the irony here). In short, here's what's…
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Personality changes
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Caring for mom with Vascular Dementia
Hi everyone, I'm new to the forum. My mom is 89 and has been living with us for 7 years. The past three have been progressively worse for her condition. I'm told she is in late stage, but that everyone is different and you never really know. She has lost 20 pounds, struggles with all tasks and now her feet are blue and her…
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61 and diagnosed with dementia and early onset Alzheimer’s
Hi, I moved in with my mother in law a couple months ago because she has been really struggling with her memory. Today we got the diagnosis of dementia and early onset of Alzheimer’s. I am looking for Any advice for me to help get us on a manager track so I can take the best care of her!! Thank you in advance!!
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Medicaid and unmotivated attorney
I know the pat answer is find another attorney but just need to see if I'm reading the attorney wrong. I've hired an attorney to help get my mom on Medicaid as my brother and I can't keep making up the difference at the MC my mom is at. My mom makes just over the limit for Medicaid but the attorney did help setup the…
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Paranoia
My mother believes her apt is bugged. It's confusing because she is high functioning socially. The family wants to assure her no one is spying, but if we doubt her she becomes angry. She's calling the apt mgr daily now threatening if they don't find the "creeps" she will sue. We are new to all this. Is there anything we…
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Looking for advice on how to get my mother (who has dementia) back to her country
Dear community members, I hope this message finds you well. My name is Fernando. I am Brazilian, and I don't live in the US. My mother has lived in Houston for more than thirty years. She became an American citizen a long time ago, and She never planned to leave the country. However, She started presenting symptoms of…
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Dad diagnosed w/Alzheimer's
I'm curious if there are stages in Alzheimer's that make the patient aware at times who they're corresponding with. Mom will tell me when he has his outburst/episodes of frustration he's mean and nasty however this is only displayed when I'm either not at the house or not in the room - when I'm in the room, he doesn't…
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New to the site, need urgent help
Hi All, I just found this site while searching for resources to help me. My mother has diagnosed dementia (unknown type) and my stepfather is rapidly following in her footsteps but is not yet diagnosed. They are both in their 80s. They are living in a private home and are dangerously compromised. We have been able to get…
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Just exhausted
I need to vent a little and this is a good place to do so. I am mentally, and physically exhausted. It seems like I have rarely had a moment to myself in years. I just want time to focus on my own health because my back is killing me and might need surgery. I'm overweight and want to start exercise and diet to lose weight…
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Cat in MC?
Does anyone have experience with PWD having a cat living with them in an MC setting? I am working on moving my mom from AL to MC. She was encouraged to bring her cat with her when she entered AL, as it is a pet-friendly facility. Now that she is planning to move to the MC building on the same property, we are getting mixed…
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Struggling with my stress
Hi. I’m new to this group. My father passed away a few years ago. He had Alzheimer’s. We had full time live in care for him. Last year my mother was diagnosed with vascular dementia. She is getting worse rapidly. She has a flat that is part of an independent living community. However she is now struggling to live…
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AL wasn't what I thought it was.
I had a vision in my mind what AL would entail for my mother. The pamphlets and virtual tours were misleading. When Mom was having more and more trouble living alone, I wanted her to have a community environment with people her own age and a staff with nurses who would keep her healthy and engaged. That isn't at all what…
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Mom is actively dying
My mom began End Stage LBD 3 months ago. Family had trouble accepting this at first so I began EOL planning with little to no support. I began trying to get family consensus over engaging hospice with tacit approval until I began to take steps to do so. This past week when I observed what I believed to be the active dying…