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update on omicron/covid
This is the best Ive got at this moment this is a nasty disease The omicron variant is "living up to " the predictions. Many more cases but a lower fatality rate and heavily concentrated among the non vaccinated adults. The success of vaccination in preventing death has been overwhelming. It is not Milder it just has a…
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Oh the vulgarity!
I am not a prude. My own language is occasionally laced with my favorite four-letter words. However, as my husband’s mind declines, his curses, references to brutal violence, and repetition of these grotesque images is more than I can take at times. I was talking about friends whose political beliefs differ from ours. DH…
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ABC123(1)
I don't think you've posted much about your parents lately, and they're always on my mind. Hopefully they are both hanging in there.
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Moving from one MC TO another
Has anyone done this? Moved their LO from one MC to a new one? Before my DW was admitted too MC we (I) planned a move from California to Idaho to be near my daughters. I felt it time to be close to family as we aged, (me 82, her 91). I bought a mobile home in Boise with the idea we would move there this spring. Her…
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Count it all joy?
My dw and I made it again to church although I had to kinda persuade her, she isn't wanting to go and always gets agitated , I think it's a self defense mechanism. Any way we have a church member who speaks most fifth Sundays. Today it was James 1:1-6 , 12. Many in our congregation are elderly and families are getting to…
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Happy Birthday ?
My birthday is at the end of January. 12 years ago we were in Thailand on a scuba diving trip. DW had just been moved from chief of system development to the senior medical advisor in her field for the whole agency. It was a promotion but she was still irritated. However it meant she could finally take real vacations and…
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Nutrition
My DW is now refusing to eat and not because she cannot swallow. She is drinking less water, which has always been a mainstay. I am scared, but gently encouraging by presenting food in different "manners". For example, I toast a piece of bread, cut it in to 4 sections and put different jams or butter on each. However this…
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Taking husband out to Lunch after placing in MC
Hello everyone, I am missing my husband terribly. At least I can visit him once a week for a half an hour to an hour. I am finding that it is just not enough. While he’s severely compromised, I’m really wondering if I can take him out and bring him to lunch somewhere and then bring him back. I’m terrified because I don’t…
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How do I talk to LO In denial?
Despite neurologist and doctors telling DH of his early dementia diagnosis. Therapist asked u have any memory problems? He says no ! He asks me why he is having therapy, putting patch on etc. Is it wrong of me to keep telling him that we r working on improving his memory? I don’t know what I should be saying to convince…
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Is this typical?
My DH will talk at length to any stranger. He rolls down the window and stop to speak to neighbors walking dogs and always days the same thing “I don’t trust people who don’t like dogs.” In restaurants he always tell the waiter he wants to be smarter and taller. He tips cashiers at Cracker Barrel and can talk for ages…
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Help breaking the news it’s time to move to assisted living
Hello all- I had a talk with my Lo’s neurologist the other day and he says it no longer safe for her to live alone. I agree. The only option I have is to move her into assisted living of some variety. We have discussed that this would have to happen in the abstract future, sadly that future is now. She is very aware and…
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Yellow Brick Road and an Anniversary of Sorts
8 years ago tonight we began our dementia journey with a visit to the ER for uncontrolled blood pressure, migraine headaches, and bloody noses same was causing. We had just been to our new doc the day before so the meds had not had time to kick in. His recommendation upon my messaging him about the continuing migraine and…
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My first ever attempt at poetry
And it is a work in progress. Trying for more of an ending. A true story: She was sixteen In front of her house She stood waiting For what would probably be Her first time dating But as luck would have it He didn’t show I happened by And said “Hello” Almost two years later, we got married Another two years, and a bundle of…
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Lady Texan, how are you?
Just checking in. You have been on my mind a lot. Hope things are going as well as possible.
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front door flashing privates
Help! What can I do to get my husband from standing at the front door and flashing and playing with his privates to everyone who is driving or walking by. We live in a rural community with house real close and a lot of people out walking or driving by. I've tried distracting but he is so focused that there is nothing I can…
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Glass half full or half empty?
My SO has short term memory problems which have been diagnosed as early Alzheimer's. She was always in control of her finances and business affairs and becomes very depressed when she is reminded that it is no longer the case. I try to get her to focus on the many positive things in her life but am not always successful.…
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Mor MIL problems
I've written before about my mean demential mother in law but what happened last night takes the cake. Ever since she took my DH to the urgent care because she thought that would speed up him getting hernia surgery, I have forbidden her to come into our house. Last night though when I was in the other room I heard loud…
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Disney channel
My husband has been watching old westerns and Andy Griffith and Mash. He always looks bored. He likes movies but is having trouble following a lot of them. I signed up for Disney and he loves it. Dog and horse movies bring on smiles. Now he is watching Huck Finn and is enthralled. The colors are great and are much better…
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Plasmalogen
Has anyone on here tried the Plasmalogen therapy. Research is interesting.
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Too much togetherness
I'm new here. My DH developed dementia symptoms since October due to two subdural hematomas on each side of the front of his brain. He had surgery to drain them, successfully, but the dementia symptoms worsened after that. His neurologist now says his symptoms are consistent with vascular dementia but has not made a formal…
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Getting defensive
My DH has been very defensive lately. No matter what I say he gets angry and tells me I'm wrong and that's not what he said. He then has a mean attitude with me. He claims I said something that I never said. How do you handle these out-bursts?
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Funny things our LOs say
I've had an almost impossible time understanding what DH is saying lately, lots of word salad. I used to be able to figure it out fairly well, but any more I find myself saying, "I don't know, can you ask me again?" Today it was total gibberish. I just looked at him and said, "I don't understand. Tell me again." And with a…
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Thinking of the East Coast folks
Hope all are safe and dont lose power. I love Boston and New Haven but don't miss them this time of year....
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Our lives are not over
This is what I wish for you. Here's to life. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UTv3TONfTTQ Lyrics: No complaints and no regrets. I still believe in chasing dreams and placing bets. But i have learned that all you give is all you get So give it all you got. I had my share, I drank my fill, And even though I'm satisfied, I'm…
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Who are you? (humor)
I thought this was sightly humorous. This morning, I was sitting at the computer when I turned around and saw Colleen sitting on the bed. We had the following conversation, starting with her. Who are you? Who am I? Who are you? I’m me. My name is Ron. Does Me have a name? My name is Me. Your name is Colleen. Oh. You and I…
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An ambulance ride, hospital stay and a step down
We've now been working with a psychiatrist to help with DH's anxiety. He started him on some meds that only helped a little bit, then slowly increased them and changed the antidepressant. It was working. He was sleeping better and overall his mood was improving. Then, the Friday before last, he woke early in the morning. I…
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Lexapro(1)
Has anyone given their LO Lexapro? My husband is having anxiety. As a drinker, benzos (Xanax, Ativan) aren't an option. Has anyone had good results with Lexapro or the generic equivalent?
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Should I bother with a New MRI?
So...........it's almost 4 years since we had an MRI of my husband's brain. Four years earlier it was "amnestic MCI"; then 4 years ago, "significant shrinkage" and the horrible "you don't have to come back"; to now, almost 4 more years. He's in MC, doing OK since late August, but with "incidents" of acting out, hurting…
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Problems, but not serious problems
I have read here about serious problems. What's driving me berserk right now is a not-serious problem: my spouse has the sense of humor of a preadolescent. If I hear one more inane joke or tongue-lolling sex joke I am going to lose it! And, of course, he doesn't get my humor either.
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Sometimes that little ride pays off, even if it doesn't
I didn't help with my wife's wanting to go to (somewhere??), but next is what I saw. A guy was making a video of deer eating corn that had been laid out for them. He was between 15 and 20 feet away from them.