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My husband is lucid much of the time
My husband is not so far gone that I could not leave him in memory care or nursing home but when he gets into a rage there is nothing I can do And he is still having trouble walking What should I do? Guilty ridden
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Treating NPH
Has anyone on this forum actually know, personally, if any one had a lumbar puncture to help diagnose NPH, and if so did it relieve some symptoms, such as cognitive and walking? And how did the person feel after the lumbar puncture? I've been reading that is a relatively rare condition
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Sleeping Issues: need advice
Hi everyone, I’m looking for some advice and to see if anyone else has experienced something similar. My dad has been living with Alzheimer’s for about 10 years. He’s still fairly active—he can ride his bike and we go on walks together—but recently we’ve been struggling with sleep. When it’s time for bed, he just can’t…
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Hair cut and shave while in hospital
If my spouse is in a facility or hospital how can he get a haircut or shave or nails cut if he cannot go out or it is not safe to take him, or should I just risk it and take him to get this done Also he needs a shower He can bathe himself but has trouble with turning it on and off (I have to do this for him and then the…
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Ugly Stepchildren Dilemma
I know some of you have written regarding problems with stepchildren, and I am hoping for some advice. My DH is in memory care in early Stage 6, and neither of his children think he should be. His son is the worst and blames all of his dad's problems on improper medication. His daughter realizes that dad is ill, but thinks…
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STAGE 8 - There is no other side of grief...
My soulmate husband Lonny passed August 12. I feel lost most of the time but am trying to find myself without him. Found this on a Facebook post today. So true. I had my own notion of grief. I thought it was the sad time, that followed the death of someone you love. And you had to push through it to get to the other side.…
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Dreams
DH with ALZ has started dreaming. In the past he has said that he was unaware of any dreams. Now, they are vivid enough for him to remember. Additionaly, he is tearing up his bed in his sleep to the point where all bedding is on the floor. I did not aske him about his dreams whichh I see now that I probably need to do. He…
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New here
Good afternoon, informative sight. Thx
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Just went to the hospital HELP
This morning when he got up he couldn't walk very well and could not stand up I called 911 to assist and they suggested to take him in for tests So here I am all tests including,CT came back normal so they will admit him sometime today or tomorrow And maybe do a lumbar puncture for further analysis per his doctor He is…
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Start of incontinence
I knew the day would come. DH is now urinary incontinent for about a week now. I’ve been lucky it held off for as long as it did. He’s always been very resistant to my helping him in the bathroom with cleaning himself, etc, and it’s worse now. I don’t know how I’m going to get him to wear pull-ups when it’s hard to even…
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Still Need more HELP husband in the hospital
I have read the comments to my previous posts and just need reassurance that I did the right thing in letting the paramedics take him in for further evaluation. I am desperate
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MC in Minnesota
Is anyone familiar with any of the Suite Living MC facilities in the Twin Cities?
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Grief
·onpstordSei2 f40m :M5 mtfA29m1s01mg3m5m77ittg3actA9u0i5u3at · Jim Carrey once said: Grief is not just an emotion—it’s an unraveling, a space where something once lived but is now gone. It carves through you, leaving a hollow ache where love once resided. In the beginning, it feels unbearable, like a wound that will never…
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A Chuckle
I just ordered a mattress protector for any "spills". It asked me if I wanted to send a gift message.
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So I was planning to do something productive today for once…
My plans for a productive day came to an end mid morning when hospice called. The hospice nurse regularly calls to update me on his visit. Today he told me first that my DW was being recertified, and assured me that there was no chance she will ever not be recertified based on her condition. While doing so he told me that…
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TONIGHT TUES 8-26-25 ON ABC "Emma & Bruce Willis: The Unexpected journey"
Tonight is the airing of the ABC News special, "Emma and Bruce Willis: The Unexpected Journey – A Diane Sawyer Special," which airs at 8:00 p.m. EDT on ABC and streams the next day on Disney+ and Hulu. The special features Emma Heming Willis discussing their family's new reality since Bruce Willis's diagnosis with…
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Tips to stop dementia refusals try these 3 tips
Hope you can view this video. 3 phrases to say to stop refusals. Haven’t tried these. https://www.facebook.com/share/r/1G9AEJzEJN/?mibextid=wwXIfr
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The Cavalry Is Not Coming
Reposting for the new platform. I have not posted here for quite a while, and I want to let you know that I am still here. I hope you all are doing well, and I also have a thought process to share with you. October 1, 2022 will mark seven years since my wife’s dementia became obvious, and that I knew for certain that this…
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Alzheimer's help line
Please tell me how to contact the alz hot line I realize I need help, sooner than later. Thanks Do I have to talk to them on the phone can I just text bi don't want him to hear me and I live in a one room apt
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DH groped a female resident at his MC
Dear Forum Friends, first, thank you all for your support and understanding on my previous post. It helps so much to know you are all here and we are all here for each other. The social worker from DH MC called yesterday to tell me DH had been found in a female residents room during the night. He had his hand down the…
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Jeez
Of all the two clear sentences my DW could get out clean. Yesterday she said, "I can't talk. It makes me want to walk into the road in front of cars." Damn. What a gut punch.
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Questions about Lecanemab
Hello, Is anyone on this site receiving Lecanemab infusions or know someone who is or has received it. The doctor has offered this therapy to my husband. I am interested in hearing the experiences of others who are or have received this infusion. Thank you.
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We're all figuring it out as we go....
I saw this on Facebook and thought it applied to us. Thinking of you all and praying for you and your loved ones. Diane.
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I feel like the song White Rabbit by Jefferson Airplane
It’s like the song “white rabbit.” I feel like Alice in Wonderland. “When logic and proportion have fallen sloppy dead.” There is no logic and some days I’m thrown completely off. Example: every night for at least 6 months, my husband asks what the two pills are he takes each night. I tell him antidepressants. He then asks…
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Grief! - Vent!
I am having a very hard time coping with anticipatory grief ! I have been caring for my DH for about 14 years. He is now stage 7 on Hospice. I have help almost every day for his care. I am trying so hard to keep myself in shape and fighting this depression. Today the grief and sadness seems overwhelming. The tears keep…
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New to Group
I am new to this group. My husband has been diagnosed with Alzheimer’s. I am grateful for this group support. We are hours away from family, and I am on my own navigating through this. My husband is a disabled veteran rated at 100 percent. Rating allows for covered in home care.
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He keeps pushing me
I know I trigger his aggression, but when he pulls off his pants when we try to go out , I try to put them on, then he pushes me and I fall, more than one time
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Hello out there
Well, it's Sunday morning and the DW of 40 years is sleeping so I have my hour or two before the fun begins - lol. Just found this site! My wife was diagnosed in 2019 and is fairly well along on her journey. Too much to go through here but in summary, our kids are scattered, we have some of her family here, in fact a…
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Tired of putting my life on hold
Why am I the only one making concessions, what about my life, my needs , I don't even like him, he takes up all I have within me and I am walking out the next time he raged at me Call me selfish? I have given him everything including myself. I deserve to live my life I promised for better or worse not abused
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I am seriously flipped out
I made the cardinal sin and physically took off my husband's shirt because his stomach was hanging out. Now he is calling me a b____and I suppose I am Now I asked him if he still loved me. Of course not. sometimes I just say I love you to him just to hear it back I still don't know how to navigate this private hell